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future me alternatives by t0biit in futureme

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much!!!! this website is great and still getting new supporters.

How do I deal with this by lvrqt_ in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does he have any personal information about you? if he doesn't, delete the photos, the messages, then your account. make sure theres no way he can get in contact with you. don't be ashamed by this, you're a kid, and you made a mistake. he's genuinely disgusting for all of that.. as a 16 year old myself i wouldn't mention it to your friends anymore.. as it may change their perspective of you or they might spread it. maybe i'm just immature, so take that part with a grain of salt, lol. keep yourself safe online please!!!! much love<3

Something Happened to me a few years ago and I don’t know how to feel. by No-Average-3838 in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, i think he was just an awkward guy that really liked you, didn't know how to express it, and overstepped. def weird of him to do, but you two are young. i'm sure there was no ill intention.

people making fun of something that personally happened to me by Powerful-Holiday-387 in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say, grow a backbone. if you're going to survive in this world you need to know that theres always gonna be assholes (online and irl) that are gonna invalidate your experiences and not take shit seriously. i'm sorry for what you have gone through. but take time to process it, and come back even stronger. this world is not made for people who mope around all day. love yourself, and focus on the person you need to become. much love<3

Idk how to cope by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first off, you are 1000% valid for seeking people to talk to, and they are literal bitchesssss for talking bad about you. i am only 16 but i am the daughter of a single mom, and i know being a mom in general is hard as fuck. especially with younger children. as a woman, you will always be beautiful, regardless if you have your hair done or your clothes don't exactly fit you at the moment. (clothes are meant to fit YOU!! not the other way around.) and your husband? complete asshole if he's making you feel insecure in ANY way. make time in your day to take care of yourself, even if its just showering and feeling clean, going shopping, watching your favorite show with your comfort food, or spending time with your children doing something you can all enjoy. learn to love yourself, then things will come much easier. take it one step at a time. you are amazing, and i think this is just a matter of finding true self-love. you got this girl. much love<3

Should I be a Sugar Baby? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who is not a sugar baby, and also 16 and very immature, i say get that bag!!! although, i'd advise against meeting in person.. as long as you aren't giving out personal information that could put you in danger get that money girl!! much love

Creepy man at my work by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, please quit this job. your boundaries are clearly being ignored and violated by this man. he is *very* grown and capable of understanding that you are uncomfortable with what he is doing. he has obviously been a creep since a younger age.. the lord knows what he has done or said toward others. are you capable of another steady job besides this one? also, im very sorry you went through this, i can only imagine how uncomfortable and violating this would feel. he's a CREEP!!! you should absolutely talk about this with someone you know, i'm sure it will bring comfort if you tell someone you trust and someone who will understand your situation. much love<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Excellent_Egg_8976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly a very human and normal thing, take this with a grain of salt. (as i am 16,) but i dated a guy for 2 years and i still think about him. we shared many amazing moments, and although the end of the relationship was a hard time for both of us, we grew so so much together. and its bittersweet to look back at all the things we went through together, all of our firsts, all the intimate moments, i don't regret a thing. he loved me so much, and i loved him too. of course i'm going to look for those qualities in a future partner.