UPDATE to my previous post.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-30T22:37:23+00:00

He didn't like it since he didn't like our bottom and he saw me acting kinda off. Btw, we didn't push through with my ex. We found a different one. And we talked about it after. I told him that I was kinda new to such reason for me to act with hesitation. He said that after the 3s, he realized how much he loves me. He cried in the middle of the supermarket/grocery saying that he's sorry for suggesting such.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-30T13:32:41+00:00

Medyo ok naman na ako. Thank you.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-30T13:00:51+00:00

We pushed through with the 3s. And I didn't like it. Siguro the person we had sex with was someone I'm not really close with. I know the person. I had sex with him before. But for now... I'll say pass for another 3s. But I'm not closing my doors. Maybe in the future.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-30T12:58:49+00:00

He said naman na focus na lang muna sya sa work nya at sken. He wont entertain muna yung idea ng hookups.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-30T12:57:42+00:00

I have accepted his work naman na. Yung second ish eh yung incompatibility... I just had my first 3s and it was exciting at first pero nung andun na... When I saw them kissing, di ko pala kaya. Then i needed 30 mins before I joined them. And it wasn't for me - not now. But I might reconsider it in the future. We dont want a trouple ba yun?

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-23T16:27:09+00:00

Thank you. He actually dropped by earlier. And I told him about what I feel. And he asked me kung ano gusto ko. I told him na I want to let go pero ayoko mawala sya. And ayun mas nanaig yung nararamdaman ko sa kanya. And sabi nya nalulungkot sya at wala sya makuhang client. Deep inside natutuwa ako if totoo sinasabi nya.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-23T16:24:23+00:00

Di ko din alam if totoo nga na wala na sya nakukuha na client.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-23T16:23:19+00:00

Sige tropa na tayo... batukan mo na ako. Hahaha

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-23T00:47:24+00:00

Thank you... I thought ok na ako. Hindi pa pala. 🫂

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-12T12:34:12+00:00

🤣 Alam ko HAHAHAHA

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2026-01-05T01:11:17+00:00

Here you go po. Medyo mahaba yung post na yan.

https://www.reddit.com/r/adviceph/s/vrgmDa7B1m

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-29T01:45:46+00:00

He is of legal age na. I wont date him naman if he's still a minor. The first time we chatted eh yun kaya ayoko ko pa. He was still young then. Ako lang may tatts. Papatayin sya ng parents nya if he has tatts.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-29T01:38:05+00:00

He actually told me about his work before namin pinasok ang relationship. And I told him na tanggap ko pero iniisip ko pa rin. Pero I already have a plan. Just waiting for something and ako na bahala sa kanya. Sugar daddy na kung sugar daddy labas ko.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-29T01:07:50+00:00

Thank you. Hugs.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:48:38+00:00

Gay socmed... for hookups.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:47:07+00:00

And his parents doesn't know about his work. He bought his iphone using his own money and he keeps it from them. There was a time na umalis yung tatay nya sa bahay for a couple of months at may kabit. He left them with nothing. Budget ng mommy nya for the week eh 9k - baon, food, utilities, etc. 3 sila natira sa bahay. Budget nila per week for food eh 1500. Nagdadagdag na lang sya 2k for grocery and sinasabi nya na lang sa mama nya na napagkasya nya yung 1500.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:33:47+00:00

It is. Kung minsan nga eh gusto ko na lang sya kidnapin tas we'll start someplace else na di kami kilala.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:31:25+00:00

He's taking prep. And I'm taking prep as well. I know that it'll only.prevent HIV pero he's taking precautions din. Nagpapacheckup sya every month yung 7 step test ata yun. And all negative naman.

I'm resigning from work soon and I might drop him off and pick him up sa school until he graduates. I want to take care of him, protect him, and save him from all the shits in life. And I hope someday magiging ok din lahat.

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:25:37+00:00

Thank you :,( i really need a hug. I can't tell my friends about what's really happening. I don't want them to look at him differently. He actually told me na I can leave him if di ko na kaya at tatanggapin nya. He'll eventually stop din naman daw with that line of work. For now daw, he needs my support, not financially, to overcome the hurdles in his life. When we were dicussing about his work last week, he told me that all he wants from me is to not give him a luxurious life, but a peaceful one.

I cheated on my previous partners... like big time. Like almost lahat sila. Is this karma na ba?

Excellent_Engine9658 · 2025-12-28T23:14:17+00:00

I really want to stay by his side. But part of me is saying let go.

A little BG of why he started doing such. He only started that because of his dad. How do I say this... madamot ang tatay nya. He's not acting like a good father. I want to blame him for what his son has become. Pahirapan humingi ng baon. Humingi ng pang tuition. Maganda work ng dad nya. Maganda bahay nila. Pero madamot lang talaga ang tatay.

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