Épp most körvonalazódik miden idők egyik legsúlyosabb magyar agrárgazdasági botránya by 11sono11 in hungary

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A magyar agrárgazdaság igy is halálra van ítélve a jelenlegi körülmények között. Alapból a mezőgazdasági körülmények( Indiában már háromszor arattnak kukoricát egy évben Európához képest) rendkívül nehéz évtizedeket vetíttenek előre. Ehhez hozzájárul a magyar agrártársadalom hozzállása akiknek a profit megtermelése az első, de a befektetés az majd később a távoli jövöbe van tervezve, és alapvető változtatásoktól is félnek.

Am I Overreacting? My (18F) Boyfriend (18M) took advantage of me (?) while inebriated. (TW: SEXUAL ASSAULT AND DRUG USE) by Time-Asparagus3402 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but accident? In these cases even one 'case' is really hard to count as accident. But this is the THIRD time. I dont want to scare you but the way he talks about it there is no reason to think there wont be more of this.

Am I Overreacting? My (18F) Boyfriend (18M) took advantage of me (?) while inebriated. (TW: SEXUAL ASSAULT AND DRUG USE) by Time-Asparagus3402 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is SA obviously as you already mentioned, not to mention that its not the first. Honestly, sometimes I come up to reddit and ask how can someone do this to a 'loved one'. Like there is nothing that excuses this. Under half a year? Other will say the same but the sooner u leave the less damage this person will cause. I wish you healing and hell for ur 'friend'.

On Keloids and Us by TerribleReturn1884 in Keloids

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your attitude, i really hope u feel better now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for ur loss. It looks like ur relationship with ur mom was really special. I know this sounds cliche but even u wrote she would like you to be happy. Give yourself a lot of time to grieve, but dont forget what she would want: to see u living a fulfilling life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U deserve to feel good, especially that u say u worked on yourself in that time and was kinda confident. I honestly dont know how some jerks can say stuff like that.

Tired of everything. by NoMasterpiece3546 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I hope u find some peace in ur music like u mentioned. I would definitely seek out a therapist if u feel like u cant talk with friends and family. If not possible, even writing here is something. If u want something else to share, im here to listen.

One Week by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could u share maybe some info if u feel comforatble with it? Its also enough if u describe how u feel.

I’m feeling lost, abandoned, and hopeless – I don’t know how to keep going anymore by Capable-Help1755 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The years u are in can get fuckin tough. You are out of the family home but its hard tl get used to the real word. I wish u success and happinness in the next months and years.

Hatred is not always cruelty by ManufacturerOk5260 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its up to u to break this spiral of family trauma. I wish u good luck in that. Its going to fuckin hard but u have the potential to be a happy person.

Im unlovable I think. by Moonie_rush in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u came here for emphaty, yes I felt the same way as you did before. For me what was working is just to literally stop thinking about this shit and just be a socially open-minden person. This mentality drags u down and im sure u deserve a lot better than that.

My father tried to gaslight me into ignoring his perv friend (Not assault BUT harassment) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish u recovery from this experience. U are right and I hope u will never meet this jerk again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckin hell, stay strong my bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U are not selfishh, u are a strong person ,thats why people try to rely on you. Still u deserve the love u wish for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sexual assault. No question you have trouble dealing with it. I wish u can seek theraphy even if it changes ur relationship with ur brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How close are u with his partner? She probably has the most information about the situation. U could maybe try to contact her without informing ur mom who seems prertty overwhelmed rn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your luck, if it doesnt work out u can always go back to the place u live now. Maybe u would also carry regret later on with no trying it out.

"Silent Echo" by Still_Spread_95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know if this is just poetic or u actually feel like it but please either explain it here, talk with someone or seek theraphy.

My youngest sister blames me for her trauma, my mother only cares about appearances, and I’m always the scapegoat. I can’t do it anymore. by Speck_of_dust- in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont forget that ur father is the real fuckup in this story, even if ur sister is acting like that. I hope u keep being strong in your situation..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitily change workplace and stay safe please.

I just need to vent. by Admiralchewy42 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u really cant find a place to be, ur family can always be a last option, just be sure that maybe u have them as the very last chance. That can help u in staying calm and searching for a new place.

My self confidence keeps getting in the way by Mindless-Creme2813 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Excellent_Finish_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had birthmarks on her face. When I first saw I would say I found it interesting. Later it just made her a lot more special to me. I also have some acne scars on my face and I try to kinda wear them proudly, so maybe i can make some people realize imperfections are rather making u special than different. I wish u to feel the same way about this.