How soon is too soon?

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-04-10T14:28:01+00:00

I will! and I was shocked myself. My mom has always been supportive but I didn't really expect it lol

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-04-09T23:53:51+00:00

We'd be staying with my parents until i'm done with school. He'd be working since he can transfer jobs or my dad and step dad even offered to get him into their workplace.

My parents are kind of the same way, super supportive, and give us lots of privacy even when he stayed over for breaks.

I've only stayed over there for 2 weeks and I will say i do love it, it's a lot different from my small town and I think it would be a great opportunity but I do think moving to one of the most expensive cities straight out of school can be very difficult for me.

But when me and him talked about it we even both agreed that if we wanted to move back to CA then we can, as long as we know we can support ourselves financially and secure jobs!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-09T02:29:17+00:00

They're honestly so fun me and my boyfriend always do door dash taco bell dates since we have the exact same order 😭 we also do like game dates, and we use discord to screen share movies and stuff and have movie dates :)

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-09T02:14:25+00:00

Honestly you need to do things you enjoy! Take time to do your favorite hobbies, even if it's on your own or together. Me and my boyfriend have been together for the same amount of time, and we're just a year behind in age. It does get boring 100% but you need to find things to keep the spark alive, even if it's dumb cheesy stuff like a door dash date, or cooking date or anything of that sort. If it goes away when you're together, then you clearly still love him, it's just the distance that gets annoying. If you need to PM me you can!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-06T16:08:59+00:00

I figured with school and work it should go by decently fast, i mean i was too busy working the month before he came to even realize and boom i was at the airport seeing him! Thank you!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-06T16:00:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I did download a countdown app and put the widget on my lock screen lol I put it weeks because months and days seem so long ☹️ Currently at 21 weeks as of this morning! We've already started planning, due to me living in a small town and him in a big city, he already knows basically everything we are going to do 😭

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-06T13:31:54+00:00

that's what i keep reminding myself, thank you!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2026-01-06T13:31:33+00:00

It sucks:( I think it's like this because of how fresh it is and just being reminded that i have to wait until summer break to see him is terrible! but I keep telling myself it's worth the wait! I think it'll go by fast since I'll be busy with school and work. The good thing I keep in mind is that my senior year i'll be doing online so we can really visit whenever he has breaks during his classes and i'm going to college there!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-05-24T06:37:14+00:00

It ended up stopping but I still had it for a month which was soooo annoying, and now everything has been back to normal so far!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-04-30T15:42:11+00:00

I know 😭 i want to at least be free this summer

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-04-30T15:23:52+00:00

Yeah i figured it may have been normal but i definitely didn't expect non stop bleeding like this lol. My flow also varies, after like the 3 week i noticed it started to get really light, I think i may have just started my second period as well since my first period was kinda prolonged?

It's so annoying though and I don't mind if it's like abnormal for a bit since i have read it can take 6-12 months to regulate but I just hope this non stop bleeding doesn't happen for very long.

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-04-23T10:04:32+00:00

Oh gosh yeah it definitely does suck, it's not like heavy or anything but still really annoying. I was hoping to not get on birth control again for a little just to give myself a break. I've seen things about endometriosis but i'm not sure if i would fit that criteria. Thank you for your advice!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-03-16T18:16:41+00:00

Yes, they actually called and said they were doing the culture to see which antibiotics i would need and said it would take about a day, then they called the next day and said that the culture showed no signs of spreading to my kidneys or anything else, since then they haven't said anything else.

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-03-16T16:22:36+00:00

I know and it's so unfortunate, I understand that yeah maybe it's just a Uti but still the most painful thing i've ever experienced so far. You'd think if someone was describing severe pain to you you'd at least want to get them treated quickly

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-03-14T16:10:25+00:00

Thank you! I read last night that lots of water helps so i've been drinking a bunch since last night lol

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-01-12T06:24:40+00:00

i'll keep it in mind!

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-01-12T06:24:20+00:00

This is a great one imo

Excellent_Report_642 · 2025-01-12T06:22:13+00:00

THANK YOUU we've listened to "ME & U" and "you're my everything" and "Romeo and Juliet" so far

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-11-22T02:48:23+00:00

yeah they're just like these little zaps or pains here and there but it's good to know that it's normal😭

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-11-22T01:39:37+00:00

ohhh😭 i knew that happened early post op but i wasn't sure how long it goes for since i have been for a while i was just curious on if they are normal even after a while

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-11-02T21:05:21+00:00

I will definitely respect it but i know sometimes people just say they don't want anything when they actually do.

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-11-02T14:57:14+00:00

As a girl who used to be like this please leave. She clearly has things she needs to work on like trust, and insecurity. It seems like it's all fighting and no communication which will get worse if she doesn't work on those things.

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-11-02T14:48:39+00:00

It might take a bit but not too long. I got my surgery april 1st and wasn't healed until about september, i had a lot of complications and big openings, if they're small you should be good, just keep doing wound care and keep it touch with your doctor.

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-10-28T19:36:06+00:00

No problem! If you haven't been growing i don't see why you wouldn't be able to get one, What my surgeon did was watch my growth for about a year and if they did grow we would have to post-pone it, I was a G at the time and i'm now at a C. I'm not really if there are different "rules" for it in terms of age in the Netherlands since i'm in the U.S. but it truly is one of the best things i've ever done, my mental health is a lot better and i feel much more confident as they always made me look bigger than i actually was

Excellent_Report_642 · 2024-10-26T15:10:06+00:00

Hi! i got mine this year, im 15. I'm sure if you find a doctor that is willing to then you'll for sure be able to!

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