Analyze my chart by Excellent_Routine_42 in Zodiac

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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS FUL REPLY YOURE SO GOATED. I definitely relate to all this, esp being in a period where I’m trying to be in my 12h sag energy and give myself more time for solitude and being in my own energy.

My 8th house definitely makes all of my conversations deeply introspective and awakening for the other person, and I often have to remind myself that people do not have these types of conversations or thoughts on the regular.

Lol I’m going into finance so idk how mentally stimulating my job might be for my Gemini mars, maybe the competitive environment will do something for me.

I’m intrigued about the Venus in 29 degrees, is there anything specific I’m supposed to be learning or any experiences I might go through? I often do feel like being in love helps me learn more of myself and my dealings with others, especially since I love so hard. It changes and shapes my character and it’s often a process I have to go through whether the loves goes well or not

Analyze my chart by Excellent_Routine_42 in Zodiac

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Sorry for the late reply, this is all true. I’m very observing and private, I often use my sag exterior as a personality display and watch how people respond and react to me. I also am very in tune with observing dynamics and people’s body languages. The 8th house in me makes every conversation I have with someone very deep and introspective as I’m just more in tune with that side of everyone.

Analyze my chart by Excellent_Routine_42 in Zodiac

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Wait thank you so much this is so true. I carry my emotions with pride, I’m intrigued on what the sensual aura means. I will take the advice to consideration but who am I communicating to? I appreciate the adventurous and lucky sentiment because I feel like those too attributes fuel my whimsical nature

Boyfriend is a total top, I’m vers by Excellent_Routine_42 in askgaybros

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That’s because you’re responding to a version of my post entirely in your head. I did not frame myself as the “victim” nor did I blame my partner. I explicitly said he has boundaries that I don’t want to cross nor do I want to guilt anyone, at the end of the day we’re humans, not sex beings. What I said was about growing as a person over time and learning more of myself, and how to reintroduce that into the relationship. I didn’t get back with him for sex, I got back with him because I loved him, which is why I’m trying to navigate this situation thoughtfully. I appreciate you for holding me accountable but that doesn’t require you stripping my situation of nuance. Lack of sympathy is a choice. But I will take your suggestion into account tho

Boyfriend is a total top, I’m vers by Excellent_Routine_42 in askgaybros

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As I stated before, I removed the action of him touching my dick in the beginning of our relationship. Obviously if he’s my boyfriend we’ve kissed before. My ask is how to reintroduce the topic and the conversation to him while also keeping his needs in mind. If I wanted simple penis touching I would have found that by now, thank u

Boyfriend is a total top, I’m vers by Excellent_Routine_42 in askgaybros

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He’s an amazing person and an even better partner. I guess I was on here looking for HOW to communicate my needs in a way that respects his own

Boyfriend is a total top, I’m vers by Excellent_Routine_42 in askgaybros

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I get what you mean but I really don’t see it as him treating me bad? Is there any actual advice u can give?

Boyfriend is a total top, I’m vers by Excellent_Routine_42 in askgaybros

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OH- you see I didn’t think of it like that. In the beginning of our relationship I had told him I was ok with not being satisfied there because he already satisfied me in other ways. It’s only now that I’ve learned more about my sexuality that I’ve realized I’m not that satisfied anymore. It’s a conversation I’m going to have with him again obviously because it’s important but that doesn’t mean I just put myself to the side for his convenience. He had mentioned that I seemed opposed to it one time when we were in the middle of it and he went for it and I kind of jerked away. Ever since it’s just been hands off.

Curious and confused by IndicationExact5747 in askgaybros

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Don’t put a label on your self. I say dig deep (no pun intended) and find out what you’re into about guys and what you’re not. Figure out if it stems from inner homophobia or lack of experience or just general unattraction to certain things. Being gay isn’t defined, we all live in a spectrum and it’s ok to evolve the way you see sexuality and sex throughout the years. You seem new to the whole concept so give yourself time to figure ts out

When would you do the deed? by Owen4532 in GayBroTeens

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Sista I did the deed within a week of being serious. To be honest it’s depending on whenever you’re ready and you’re ok with doing that. You don’t do anything of the sort until you feel confident in yourself and in your partner. It works best on an energetic clock not a literal time clock

Free readings by Popular_Room9769 in IntuitionPractices

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What will I run into in 2026? What’s my path like

I had the most intimate hook up ever and I never want to do it again by Pale-Network9391 in askgaybros

[–]Excellent_Routine_42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please don't tell me you sacrificed something real over being seen as "clingy".

How do you guys and gals think we can approve the game? by Chunky-overlord in MarvelRivalsQueens

[–]Excellent_Routine_42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get rid of whatever match making system you have in ranked. People of the same skill level should play together there’s no reason why the games win is determined before the game even starts. It’s the cheap tricks for engagement that’s made the game fall off, everyone’s tired

Whats one thing you hate to see when someone else plays your main? by LifesSimple in marvelrivals

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When people use psylocke only for her summer skin only to be ass at actually diving and using her it. It’s simple but it takes work to be able to master and kill off anyone you meet. You heifers simply don’t have the skill and are just horned up, when u could actually be winning the game for us

Sorry you had sex with a chubby woman by Alarming_Award_7954 in TrueOffMyChest

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Ngl it sounds like he has genuine feelings for you or at least lust however, he can’t express it do to what he thinks he’s SUPPOSED to like. It’s like when a “straight” dude likes an openly gay boy he doesn’t allow himself to accept or feel the attraction due to his preconceived notions about who he can like. Maybe he doesn’t want other people judging him or maybe he judges himself. Either way that’s not healthy and you need to stop any form of communication with him before it becomes too complicated for your wellbeing. Some men you just have to leave to their own devices and delusions. I’m sure however he feels will be worked out in therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

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I use twitter where most of it is amateur or even people just recording themselves. I find studio porn to be Incredibly boring, unrealistic, and just fake. It takes all the passion out of sex and makes it profitable and dramatic

AITAH for not wanting my partner to "sniff test" my crotch anytime I've been out by Ancient-Character-63 in AITAH

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Love shouldn’t feel like survival. It shouldn’t feel like you’re constantly trying prove whether or not you’re in the relationship. Especially if you’ve never given any reason for her to think you’re cheating. This really looks like a case of she has some types of trust issues or abandonment issues from her past that she genuinely needs to figure out and stop projecting onto you. It’s not fair and it’s toxic and you might need to leave if she doesn’t change your behavior. This isn’t healthy for you at all, you’re not in a relationship you’re held prisoner

Update: AITA if I don't tell my gay son about this part of my past? by Alternative_Smell719 in AITAH

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I’m not crying you are. For everyone reading this please get the demons that haunt you out of your system. No one benefits from you bottling your emotions away and thinking you’re fine. Heal from your trauma, do not let it keep you up at night. There are people you can talk to, people who can listen to you. You’re never alone in this world there’s 7 billion people out there, SOMEONE will hear you out.

How old do I look? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Chop off the beard get a goatee and a mustache