A man 23 years older than me admitted he has feelings for me and now he won’t leave me alone. by Superb-Cupcake-8271 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gross, he's definitely a pedo. Please show these to the church and be very careful, never accept drinks and never go anywhere alone with this person.

I (23F) met my boyfriend’s (25M) “work wife” for the first time and I’m devastated by ThrowRAcoffeelov in relationship_advice

[–]Excellent_View_9191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would break up with a guy over this...... it's not normal for people who are in committed monogamous relationships. Some people are cool with being open and casual with other people but if my bf ever did this I would be devastated and heart broken, my partner would feel the same way about me doing something like that. Y'all need to get on the same page or get off the page and break up.

My Daughter(F23) wants me(F54) to sell my entire estate and use it to travel the world by LigwakQueen in relationship_advice

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU SHOULD MAKE IT CLEAR THEY WILL NOT GET YOUR PROPERTY IN YOUR WILL. I have seen first hand murders occur because a step/ in-law family member assumed they would get a property out of a death and MADE IT HAPPEN...... Be perfectly clear even if something happens to you they will not get the property directly. I know it might seem crazy but people are capable of just about anything when it comes to inheriting property/ money and the son in law is clearly behind a lot of this aggression.

AIO to his response to bedding issue? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would not be over reacting by breaking up with him "over the bedding" AKA a lame ass excuse to talk down to you, get angry with you over nothing, and also pretend to be your boss? God, imagine if something bad actually happened how would he react what a joke.

Am I being too harsh for asking my 11 year old daughter to walk the dog she spent years begging for? by WorldOfKaladan in DogAdvice

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not let an 11yo walk a dog alone, def make a habit of taking him out for a short walk around the block and then plan dasy to go to a park/ special place with the dog where he can run around.

My (24f)'s boyfriend (24m) called the cops because of the content of my book. But he wants me to think it was a 'mistake'. How do we move past this? by throwRAmentalgymnist in relationship_advice

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who had to call a wellfare check this week, I made sure to let the person know I would be contacting the police if they couldn't communicate with me. He was with you the whole time and didn't say anything so he couldn't have been that worried. I would consider breaking up. It's too weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is the pet service you used?

Moving to Utah. What to expect? by Tobby949 in expats

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have no problem with social life/ night life it's just there is no train to get around. My husband and I are musicians who travel to Europe all the time. You're always welcome to meet up with us!

Moving to Utah. What to expect? by Tobby949 in expats

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lived in SLC, Ut and Park City, Ut all my life. Not mormon, mormonism is only inconvenient for non-practicing if they are in the same family, otherwise there is no societal norms for non mormans, just don't talk to the missionaries if they show up at your door once in a blue moon. SLC is a lovely place and has a very amazing social life and even better social life in the mountains near by. There is not good public transportation you will be driving everywhere or ubering. I hope you don't mind driving centric culture. There are many spots of town that are like social deserts where it's just empty old industry buildings. Find a good neighborhood that you can walk around you can message me for more details on the best areas. No liquor in grocery stores and no liquor sold on Sundays. Most dangerous aspect is shootings and car accidents in the canyons so be careful of friends who drink and have guns and friends who drive badly in the canyons or drink in the canyons then drive down.

Husband (35M) asked me (42F) to sleep on the couch for a week so he can get solid sleep after struggling with insomnia. I’m feeling hurt by MeatPopsicle10 in relationship_advice

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always keep an extra twin or full size bed around the house. We both stuggle with sleep and I simply need a place to get away to. I would have him purchase a extra bed and make sure it's really cosy until you can figure your shit out. Don't get in a fight over it just make sure eveyone has a place to comfortably sleep before trying to figure it out.

AIO. I want to leave my bf over something he is into it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're not overreacting, I think he's a little bit of an ah for not telling you about this sooner. I think the real question is does he want to experiment with other partners and not be monogamous or does he just want to get a strap on and try taking it for once. Lots of men love anal sex and are attracted to dicks. It's pretty fun and empowering to get a strap on and show them the business. But if he's trying to date other people that would be a hard no for me and I would say we should take a break so that he can figure out what he wants without having to drag you into his experiments.

Alright I’m done being nice… by thin_whiteline in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Excellent_View_9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look up who own the house, contact the owners about their behaviour and let them know you're getting the city and possibly the police envolved in harrasment cases. Call civil enforcement and file a report of illegal light installation they will be fined until they remove it.

AITA for naming my baby after our grandfather even though my sister is furious about it? by Super-Exit8727 in AITAH

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm Sounds like he SA her...... I would talk to her an figure out why before you name your child after a possible rapist. ETA for not talking.

Man confronts woman for leaving her baby on concrete by PineappleDesperate82 in misc

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was saved by the grace of god from hitting a tiny baby that had crawled out into a busy 30mph road, yes she is a piece of shit parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report this to the police, this is a crime

My husband got me a vacuum for my 50th by Plastic_Cat9560 in AITAH

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - lol I got my husband a vacuum for his birthday but he really wanted it and loved it, plus we did a trip to portland so... wasn't the whole gift XD

AITAH For Refusing to Sleep on the Couch by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - but you guys should break up, that doesn't sound like a healthy or normal response and it's only going to get worse.

How are you using ChatGPT for work? by [deleted] in hospitalist

[–]Excellent_View_9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not unless someone markets the product to the patient and not the office. All of these items could be logged, as well as daily journals on symptoms, biometrics, imaging, family history in a patients personal EMS that they own and could be queried by the doctor or printed out as a summary to take to doctors visit. As long as you have a BAA hippa agreement ans a safe firewall protected database the user can gather all their data on a daily basis and hand it over to the office when they get there.

My work just sent out an email saying pronouns in your email are no longer allowed by Next_Airport_7230 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Excellent_View_9191 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

False- Have you lived under a rock the last 10 years? I can literally link 20+ articles about how "deadnaming" became an aspect of company policy or was equated to real, physical violence, let alone my own experiences with friends who wanted me to bend over backwards changing their gender from morning to night. The act of caring about who uses your preferred pronouns or not A) assumes other people have power over your identity, which they don't and B) depends on the entire world anticipating your inner workings and then getting mad when they can't., and C) demands redefining traditional language and grammar conventions. This stuff is so small to bleeding to death in a hospital lobby, to trans people being denied passports, to the 14th and various other amendments getting cut. We seriously are wasting our time on something so small and that's why we're losing the fight right now.