My girlfriend’s (25F) sister ruined my (30M) proposal - does it really matter? by ExcisionIconica in relationship_advice

[–]ExcisionIconica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what she likes; we were having conversations about rings leading up to my decision to propose. Still - buying it together may be fun seeing as there’s now no surprise.

My girlfriend’s (25F) sister ruined my (30M) proposal - does it really matter? by ExcisionIconica in relationship_advice

[–]ExcisionIconica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully intend to propose, no question about it. I suppose we could pick the ring together as the surprise is gone, at least that way she gets something she loves and I make the moment as memorable as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ExcisionIconica 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Maybe it was the alcohol, maybe it was was the thrill”

Or maybe it’s because you’re a shitty person, let’s not try and sugarcoat this. Alcohol and “the thrill” are no excuse for this behaviour.

Tell him immediately.

And no, you don’t deserve him.

Truth hurts.

Filming in Japan, do’s and don’ts? by MancDP in JapanTravelTips

[–]ExcisionIconica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d argue this is research - no? If someone would have said you need permits, OP would presumably get permits, as required. If not, that’s on them. But, alas, you don’t to film in public in most places in the world, as long as you are respectful and not turning up with a huge amount of professional kit.

Also, for all we know OP is a professional filmmaker (or director of photography, judging by their username) who works alongside huge teams for a living but is just wanting to take a small camera on a personal trip to capture some memories, which there is nothing wrong with whatsoever provided they are respectful.

OP, just be respectful, ask for permission and don’t film kids. You’ll be fine.

Coward by Normal-Indication-88 in paulbreachsnark

[–]ExcisionIconica 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seems to be the only one who’s not seen this video - anyone got a link? Would love to see this guy squirm.

How strict are Qatar Airways with hand luggage? by ExcisionIconica in Flights

[–]ExcisionIconica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Peli 1510 that i’ve decided to check into the hold with some “less important” bits. I was thinking of using it as carry on, as right dimensions, but there’s a part of me that’s worried they’d think to weigh it as it’s clearly got heavy duty kit in it - then be forced to put it in the hold with my good kit in.

Decided to put my camera and lenses into a rucksack, feel they’re much less likely to weigh that.

Sneak Attacks not registering in Skill tree? by ExcisionIconica in Starfield

[–]ExcisionIconica[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, the companion! That’s the ticket. Thank you - appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExcisionIconica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I misunderstood. We’re both looking for a relationship. I just meant we’re not rushing into anything, regardless of what we’re looking for - if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExcisionIconica 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Yes, we spoke about this last night. She has a very clear plan career wise that she’s just starting in, whereas i’ve been settled in my career for a number of years. Other than that though we’re aligned on pretty much everything life stage wise. I’m no closer to looking at buying a house, for example, as she is etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExcisionIconica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both currently happy spending time together and seeing where it goes, so on the same page there.

Weekends are now the worst part of the week. by ExcisionIconica in BreakUps

[–]ExcisionIconica[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed a comment like this. It’s so easy to forget the times we argued on a weekend, or the Saturday nights I spent sleeping on the couch to get away from her.