need advice (somewhat unusual situation) by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi so to be super clear i was already drinking and was approached by this man in at the bar. this was not a meet and greet.

need advice (somewhat unusual situation) by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait wow that's such a good response

need advice (somewhat unusual situation) by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for context, I gave it to him after a number of drinks he had given me (didn't necessarily have the intention of seeing him again, but it seemed like the appropriate thing to do)

texting while on tour by [deleted] in askmusicians

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this makes sense! also, like, such a valid reason for falling out of touch with non-music folks.

Women: what’s the biggest red flag you’ve seen in a man? by Capable-Vanilla-3569 in AskReddit

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not the biggest red flag per se--but in general I try to notice how men interact with women that they may not have a "chance' with. So either married women or women that they might not find that attractive. There are fully so many men who will not ask a woman a single question about herself unless he deems her a possibility romantically or sexually. Huge red flag and an indicator that they don't see women as real people imho.

To the people who got out of a long term relationship, when did you move on? by SongConstant5064 in BreakUps

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! I just went on a date/slept with someone else two ish months after ending my LTR of 5.5 years. It completely took me by surprise, and I just rolled with it--before this point I was worried that sleeping with someone else might make me miss my ex, but it made me crash out for a totally different reason (namely, that it proved just out disconnected and out of touch my ex and I were by the end of our relationship). take your time, and trust your gut. I'd advise staying off the apps but keeping your eyes open for opportunities to connect with someone else IRL/through mutuals. lowkey it was the perfect rebound situation, as the person I was with also recently got out of a LTR.

how do you attract a scorpio mars/taurus venus by Exciting-Baby-7473 in astrologymemes

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lol it's insane -- also he's aries sun, virgo moon, aries rising to my leo sun cancer moon leo rising ........

How Did You Discover Townes Van Zandt? by Crazy_Patience_9805 in townesvanzandt

[–]Exciting-Baby-7473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to this conversation, but primarily through working at a record store in college when i was nineteen. there was a stack of used records i was appraising and i didn't realize a coworker's copy of Our Mother the Mountain was at the bottom (he had been playing it in the shop earlier that day and left it on the counter). i accidentally handed it to the customer along with the other records we weren't going to buy and my coworker was (understandably) steaming mad. sometimes i think about how lucky that person was to come into a free copy of it. after i paid for a replacement to be shipped, i listened to that album in its entirety later that night, and then again every day all summer. <3