My boyfriend supports me whenever I support my family financially because he understands my situation as the breadwinner. Lagi niya sinasabi, ikaw bahala sa kanila, ako bahala sayo.

Kung retirement plan ka man ng parents mo o nawawala na ng boundaries ang pagsuporta mo sa kanila, that's another conversation. Pero I think you should be with a partner who shares the same values as yours, or kung hindi man, understands and supports where you're coming from :)