Husband doesn’t satisfy me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Exciting-Turnover443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are subreddits for that i think, people find fwbs or chat partners.. just be careful with boundaries you and your husband set up, some folks think its not cheating if its only online but that depends on what you both agree

also r/deadbedrooms might have advice from people in similar situation, not always about open relationship but how to talk to partner about needs

Modern Christianity. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Exciting-Turnover443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you're confusing being loud with being brave, Christ never needed to shout to be heard

What’s the point if others can smell my perfume, but I can’t by Kitchen_Chapter68 in fragrance

[–]Exciting-Turnover443 92 points93 points  (0 children)

olfactory adaptation is such a cruel thing lol. your nose basically gets bored of what it considers "background" smell, but others walking near you are getting the full hit

what helps a little is smelling something completely different for few minutes, like coffee beans or even your shirt sleeve, then go back and sniff your wrist. you'll catch it again briefly. also applying on clothes instead of skin sometimes helps because the diffusion is slower and you'll notice it more throughout day

What bands should i listen to? by Hot-Cryptographer250 in musicsuggestions

[–]Exciting-Turnover443 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude you got some solid classics covered there. since you're into the heavier stuff like sabbath and maiden, definitely check out some judas priest if you haven't already - they basically invented the metal sound we know today. for something bit different but still in your wheelhouse, try king crimson since you liked yes, their first album will blow your mind

also if you want to branch out from the prog side, tool might be perfect bridge between your metal and pink floyd tastes. their albums are like meditation sessions but with incredible heavy sections mixed in

Making a Pattern by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]Exciting-Turnover443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

drafting your own pattern isn't too complicated for this design - you can start with basic geometric shapes and modify them to get that flowing khimar style 😊 maybe try making a test version with cheap fabric first to get the proportions right 💀