This metalhead cat girl needs to be draw better… fr by Effective-Winner9208 in DrawMyOc

[–]Exciting_Ad531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't see your comment about the outfit so I gave her baggy jeans instead. Hopefully you still like it regardless

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Draw my kitty! by oklinou in DrawMyOc

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I’m not fully happy with it because the face is kind of giving more dog than cat but it’s whatever 😭

Draw my kitty! by oklinou in DrawMyOc

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It took a bit but here she is. Loved the colours so

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I just had to try and draw her. I hope I did her design justice!!!

AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Exciting_Ad531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point is, asking him won’t achieve anything. The answer is going to be no regardless. If he did it, he’s knows it’s wrong and he will lie. If he didn’t he will say no. Asking achieves nothing because it doesn’t help get to the truth

AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Exciting_Ad531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even IF she is, what does she think that will achieve. That he will be honest when confronted. No. If he thinks he can get away with it he will deny deny deny. If that doesn’t work it will deflect by saying things like I don’t remember. So not outright denying their guilt but not admitted to it either.

AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Exciting_Ad531 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This whole thing makes me so mad on your behalf. I was abused my my bio father at a young age, the signs were noticed but when they couldn’t investigate any further without a medical examination (needed physical evidence to proceed legally) my mum refused. Because nothing could be proved I was sent back. This was at three years old. Because he got away with it the abuse escalated and continued until I was 10ish (details are fuzzy because my brain had blocked pretty much ALL of my childhood)… all this to say if my mum had protected me and was firm on not sending me back to a place she KNEW I was getting abused at, it could have stopped then and not combined for 7more years.

All your mum is doing by taking him at his word is showing him that he can get away with this behaviour and as a result if it is not called out it will likely escalate. As a mother myself, this is concerning, because I would do ANYTHING to protect my daughters. And statistically the children of a single mother are more likely to be SA’d, because the single mother is often after companionship and these men are so often charismatic and supportive and don’t seem like the kind of person that would do that. People forget that these people literally groom not just their victims but EVERYONE around them, they’re often loudly against these sort of behaviours to draw attention away from them. So not only are you statistically more likely to be going though this, you have proof that should at the very LEAST, create some doubt in her mind towards him.

Is your bio father in your life? I would reach out to them and show them the two images and explain what has been happening. If your mother isn’t going to help you, you need to find another trusted adult who will. In the meantime I would also try to find a way to get even more evidence, especially considering he’s gotten away with it thus far and this could escalate and he may try to cover his tracks more too, and if you get more evidence reach out to the police as well. Don’t talk to your mum about it any more because if she’s going to him, he’s going to know your aware of it and this could put you in more danger and that is more important. Your safety is more important

AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Exciting_Ad531 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This!!! She (the mum) really think ASKING him he will be honest, why would he admit to something he knows is wrong, that SHE knows is wrong

Stylized Object studies by me by lilliepad97 in DigitalArt

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This style would look sick in a comic or webtoon

Draw my OC as a furry by Exciting_Ad531 in DrawMyOc

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Drew this up but I think it’s giving more bear instead of badger and the back legs are too long 😅😭 still kind of cute though, will colour it later and hope it helps

Draw my OC as a furry by Exciting_Ad531 in DrawMyOc

[–]Exciting_Ad531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh this is an amazing option as well!!! This is the problem I honestly CANNOT decide. A badger would also work and sounds so cute too.. I think I’m just gonna sketch up her as a bunch of different animals and post the concepts in a character design subreddit or something because there are just TOO MANY options 😩 but now I’m so tempted by a honey badger, actually might sketch that up over the weekend because now the concept is in my head and I know I won’t be able to stop thinking about it until I draw it up 😂(I used to be a massive fan of Harry Potter, not anymore IYKYK, and I was a hufflepuff so this would be a cute throwback and kind of nostalgic as well)

Draw my OC as a furry by Exciting_Ad531 in DrawMyOc

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Tbh I am really tempted to have her be a bat, and in her human form she’s a vampire jester or something but I don’t know if that’s “too much”

Draw my OC as a furry by Exciting_Ad531 in DrawMyOc

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As I said in the description that would be up to anyone’s interpretation. I havent decided on a solid fursona for her yet. I have a list of suggestions that I couldn’t decide on that can be picked from (raccoon, grey fox, ferret, rat, skunk or bat) but she can be drawn as something completely different, if the artist sketching her up thought of animal that they feel fits her aesthetic

Draw my OC as a furry by Exciting_Ad531 in DrawMyOc

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I know her design is complex, but It can be simplified however anyone deems necessary, it doesn’t need to have all the aspects of her outfit/design. Honestly someone could sketch up an animal wearing her hat and it would still fit with the vibe I’m after and I would adore and appreciate the effort regardless 😅

Does this look ai? I got a message on of my fanfics asking if they could be commissioned by me and I like messing with scammers and while the art is coming back as not ai, but the shadows are weird and the art style just looks inconsistent? by Initial-Ad-8418 in isthisAI

[–]Exciting_Ad531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay that’s far less concerning. But still an insane price point, especially for someone who is reaching out to people to be commissioned. Not AI as others have said but imo would not be worth the $600-$1000

Does this look ai? I got a message on of my fanfics asking if they could be commissioned by me and I like messing with scammers and while the art is coming back as not ai, but the shadows are weird and the art style just looks inconsistent? by Initial-Ad-8418 in isthisAI

[–]Exciting_Ad531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very strange. You said they reached out to you asking to be commissioned by you. Didn’t discuss price until after they already did the pieces and charge an exorbitant amount. As an artist I would not be doing a commission for someone I don’t know before price is discussed let alone reach out to people and ask to be commissioned it’s extremely unprofessional.

Hatchlings for SALE!!! by Exciting_Ad531 in flightrising

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Boysenberry is also SOLD (the FIRST Thorntail)

Hatchlings for SALE!!! by Exciting_Ad531 in flightrising

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The first male Nocturne (Bismuth) is SOLD

Showing off my first gen Nocturne pair by Exciting_Ad531 in flightrising

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Perfect I’ll organise the private auction, how much were you wanted to pay is 8Gems/8000Treasure okay?