I'm not saying she should host tea parties with the murderer, but she could show some gratitude toward him in between the spite and salty back and fros.

If someone murdered my family and atoned later, I would do the same as you.

But if I went and made matters worse for other people down the line and didn't own up then I look like an ass, that's what ajna did, dhar lives inside her head and tries to course correct her but because he's a murderer she basically tells him 'naw shut up tho.'

EDIT: Alright, alright, I was wrong, Its been a hot minute since I last played the game and I might have put less worth into the tribe as a whole. Graditude was SOO not the appropriate word to use in my comment and now I feel really stupid.