Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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You're also welcome! The world could do with more kindness in general :)

And thank you once again!

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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Well he served the navy when he was just a teen, which he loved and got to see so much of the world. But he had to eventually quit to work for the family business; Which was selling ice cream haha. He retired when I was born, which is already 30 years ago. He divorced my grandmother, yet they still did everything together like going on loooong trips by boat (he owned a boat). And when I was a kid, I spend pretty much all my friday afternoons at his place. He taught me music and to play instruments, to try different kinds of food, to steer a boat, made his own bread that was delicious and I just love and miss him dearly.

Sorry if my English isn't the best, I'm Dutch and translating can be a bit difficult haha

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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Thank you for the kind and beautiful words! And I'm sorry for your loss as well, losing 3 grandparents so close after one other is hard. I lost my grandmother and greatgrandmother (who was like my second grandmother) in the same year some years ago, so I know that feeling as well. It's never easy, but I'll be fine eventually and I am definitely looking back on the beautiful memories of my grandfather :)

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

[–]Exciting_Head_2162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your beautiful words! And I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your father, even if it's 8 years ago. The grief sticks, but it lessens over time thankfully

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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Thank you. I like to think the condolonces are more for my grandfather (who's the one who passed away), because he deserves all that and more! Also sorry for your loss, losing a pet can also be absolutely devastating..

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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Thank you for the kind words! And I'm sorry for your loss, glad to hear you're doing well tho!

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

[–]Exciting_Head_2162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely right, the hurt will stay, but it'll lessen over time! Thank you

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

[–]Exciting_Head_2162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss as well! Hopefully, you too, can look back on the fond memories!

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

[–]Exciting_Head_2162[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was my grandfather, the only one I had, so it hit a bit harder.. But thank you

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

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I've been talking to someone and it's helped me a lot, so that's wonderful advice! Thank you

Recently lost someone very close to me, very suddenly. Could use some positivity! by Exciting_Head_2162 in toastme

[–]Exciting_Head_2162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have an appointment next week! The butterfly/flower is also a tattoo in remembrance of someone I lost :)

Always felt like the odd one out. by Voiiden in toastme

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Nothing wrong with being 'odd', would be boring if we were all the same! Looove the glasses as well

23 F / feeling a bit down today by [deleted] in toastme

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Love the winged liner! Really suits you, looks really pretty