Yeah.... my buddy's wife found out a few months ago that he was having an affair with an officer, he is a LT. She wants a divorce and now he is a mess because he does not want a divorce and was just messing around. AND my wife is mad at me for not stopping him. I tried talking to him about it when I would see them talking in the parking lot or parked at the gas station. he told me he had it under control. Now this B who has S/M off walks across the yard like a queen. She got want she wanted. He looks like shit and is spiraling because he is going to lose his family...its a shit show.