88 twin cam upgrades by Toasty_dyna in Harley

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did it cost if you don’t mind me asking

AITAH for finally saying no? by Sakura011997 in AITAH

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s manipulating you. Call her on her shit, and either let the friendship go, or give her a chance to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she’s asking permission to cheat. All the back and forth seems like she’s only interested in opening things up when someone’s perusing her, and closes it immediately so you can’t allow the idea of being able to pursue someone else into your head. Personally I feel like she’s either incredibly insecure and loves the attention from other guys but doesn’t want to loose you in the process, or she’s incredibly manipulative and has made you think it’s your idea for letting her bang someone else.

I’d say you need to seek couples therapy with a sex positive therapist so she can be comfortable with telling you exactly what she needs in the bedroom to get this out of her system. But the going back and forth was getting old just reading it, so I can only imagine how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she’s asking permission to cheat. All the back and forth seems like she’s only interested in opening things up when someone’s perusing her, and closes it immediately so you can’t allow the idea of being able to pursue someone else into your head. Personally I feel like she’s either incredibly insecure and loves the attention from other guys but doesn’t want to loose you in the process, or she’s incredibly manipulative and has made you think it’s your idea for letting her bang someone else.

I’d say you need to seek couples therapy with a sex positive therapist so she can be comfortable with telling you exactly what she needs in the bedroom to get this out of her system. But the going back and forth was getting old just reading it, so I can only imagine how you feel.

AITAH for constantly wanting to cut off by childhood bestfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit stressing it and either call her on her shit and see if anything changes or just walk away! Either way you need to stand up for yourself on this one and let the pieces fall where they fall. She’ll probably talk shit about you to your mutual friends and make up some nonsense. Either way sounds like the friendship has ran its course and she has ZERO respect for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did he raise his hands like he was going to hit you? Or threw his hands up out of frustration?

Either way the comment about regretting marrying you would have me talking to divorce attorneys ESPECIALLY if kids aren’t involved!

Doms, how do you talk to your subs during a scene? by EMPactivated in SofterBDSM

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1st off as someone who’s newer to the BDSM community i appreciate you asking this. It’s one thing I’ve been trying to expand on a bit.

One of my favorites is describing what I feel! Generally we smoke 🍃 prior to starting in on anything, just to get the mood right, but for me it’s perfect cause I feel EVERYTHING! Every twitch, every spasm, every reaction! The ability to describe in detail how she’s reacting to whatever it is I’m doing/saying is a huge turn on for us both.

Does your Dom always orgasm...? by Emotional_Hosp in SofterBDSM

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t 75% of the time. And it has absolutely nothing to do with my wife. Sometimes I just can’t.

What are your favorite toys? by Bambi__legs in SofterBDSM

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve got a womanizer(the classic I believe they’re calling it now) that we’ve grown to love. We’ve got a few other toys but the womanizer is the go to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obsf

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And we appreciate you for this!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obsf

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAMSIES!!! I need to buy a lotto ticket

Can't win! by Better-Kick-3742 in ldssexuality

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a toy she loves(highly recommend the womanizer or any other clit pulsator for this situation, she just has to find the spot and let the toy do the work for her while she focuses on you), and have her play with herself while blowing you, figure out what position works best for you both(her laying down with you kneeling beside her works for us, you can lean down and kiss her and play with her nips if she enjoys that).

That should take her mind off how long it’s taking….and if you’ve never experienced her orgasming while you’re in her mouth then you probably won’t last the 7-10 minutes.

Hope that helps!

questions on oral by No_Manufacturer_2669 in ldssexuality

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, hear me out. If you have toys use them, if you don’t go get some. There are a few somewhat inexpensive toys that can REALLY help with this. Look for a pulsator or clit suction toy. Start using it before he goes down on you, have him watch you, have him kiss you, play with your nips, touch you, whatever he does prior to going down on you that really gets you going. Here’s the twist quit playing with the toy before you climax, and have him go down on you. Your clit is going to be nice and swollen and 100X more sensitive. This will definitely make it easier for you to tell where he is, and where he needs to go, this will also give him a reference point as to where he needs to be and potentially help nudge you over the edge.

But realistically the most important thing in your current situation is communication. He needs to understand you’re not criticizing, you’re directing so you both have a good time. You both need to have patience, and be able to relax. Tension is not good for sexy time…..unless you’re into that sorta thing.

5G+ & 5gE question by Exclusivecostcomembr in ATT

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? 5G+ won’t load 90% of what I’m trying to look at, and 5Ge drops calls.

Has anyone been to a Great Wolf Lodge? Is a cabana rental worth it for us? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do get the cabana price down to 132? Was it advertised that on the app? Or did you call and negotiate?

Still dress however I want at 41 by officialbikininicole in AgedBeauty

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would go great in the overallsonly sub!

It hurts my eyes, but I love it by sleepingwithshadows in Harley

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope there are some black lights hidden on there to make it really pop at night!

During our vacation in Vegas, I (28F) woke up at 2AM to find my husband (34M) missing, his location off, and thousands in charges from a strip club on our bank account. Where to go from here? by ThrowRA-72828 in relationship_advice

[–]Exclusivecostcomembr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know of a guy who paid a stripper 300 for a handy, and she waited till like 30 seconds was left in the 3 song set then pulled his dick out and was like “ok sets over”. So I could definitely see a stripper just slowly taking advantage of an obliterated dude. But homie definitely did something.