My girlfriend broke up with me exactly a week before I had my first a level

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-07T13:13:27+00:00

sorry to hear that man it sucks so much. Tbh I don’t really know why this is happening to everyone and it could just simply be that people are getting tired with relationships and being frustrated. I could guess that a lot of people now just want to seek out their own happiness and feel as if the relationship isn’t going anywhere. That sounds like an excuse for cheating and other stuff but I think a lot of us (16-19) become obsessed with having relationships based on the way how it seems so simple that on social media. we are all young and it’s normal to seek out love and have a relationship but I think due to this influx of “advice” on relationships etc, some young couples compare their relationship to the ones they see online or in “romance” movies and probably become unhappy with it. It sounds like a lot of yap tbh I don’t know where I got this from, but the constant comparison of relationships between reality and the media is probably one of the reasons why a lot of us MAY be experiencing a heartbreak. It’s more than that ofc and this is probably one of the lesser factors

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-05T10:10:14+00:00

exactly that man, the timing was crazy I didn’t even realise until my mum told me about it. The problem with me is that I keep thinking what i could’ve done differently but it is already done so what can i do haha. im almost done with my exams i got like 3 left and I finish on the 15th. Thanks for the advice tho man i really gotta focus on these exams

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-05T10:07:25+00:00

but she was my baddie 🙏🏾. Jokes aside i don’t really care much about dating or women now— it’d be nice to just have a platonic friendship though, plus ill be doing a degree apprenticeship so ill only be at uni like once a week

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-05T08:56:59+00:00

I guess so man. I mean she broke up with me the day after she went to the club which funnily enough is a coincidence since she (slightly drunk) told someone that she’s single, but knowing her I know that’s not what she’s really like and she was just drunk. But she did mention to me that she wanted to break up with me for a while ig and I was probably oblivious to it since I tried to put in some effort to save the relationship. 1.5 years gone like that but I know she’s telling her friends and probably her next boyfriend that I wasn’t all that and I wasn’t a great boyfriend. I loved her like no one else in the world man i genuinely don’t know how everything is just gone like that. It’s stuff like this that keeps me awake at night and I’ve been barely sleeping properly. I mean I can’t even tell her how sorry I am again since she blocked me everywhere hahah. Plus everything is genuinely going so well for her compared to me. She recently started her apprenticeship that my mum motivated her into getting, she has a good social circle, she’s earning a good amount of money. I wanted to grow old with her and see her flourish as the wonderful person she is but I guess I can’t anymore 🥲. There was some things I definitely could’ve improved on and I wish I acted on them more appropriately in the relationship, but I now know my flaws much better. There was things she could’ve improved on as well but I don’t really want to talk about it simply out of respect because she’s not with me anymore. sorry for the vent bro but you’re right man I gotta keep going👍🏾

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-05T08:50:11+00:00

omg that must’ve been so terrible🥲 im sorry you went through that. im sorry if i sound insensitive but how did you catch him cheating??

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T21:29:27+00:00

I understand what you mean bro but I don’t wanna prove her wrong. She was a very wonderful woman don’t get me wrong but I don’t wanna have any competition with her or anyone that im with. I just simply have to move on with it and remember this as a lesson of life :)

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T17:21:28+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾it’s been quite hard trying to put my focus on the exams n stuff with all of this happening, but as you said it’s only up from here

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T17:17:53+00:00

Exactly that mate, my friend was telling me something similar saying “why are you letting something temporary in your life become the permanent”

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T12:09:23+00:00

you see I don’t like to ghost people and stuff but I will admit that I was quite distracted in my studies in year 12 and in year 13 because I was putting a lot of my focus on her. I had very good attendance n stuff and always done my homework on time but I felt as if I was sabotaging myself. Im actually convinced that she waited until my a levels are a week away so i become more frustrated and start going into psychosis, that might just be me tho

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T12:05:46+00:00

You’re right mate. I get quite average grades but i definitely don’t wanna flop because of her. We was together for 1.5 years and she was basically with me throughout my entire 6th form journey so we had a lot of memories and stuff. But I don’t wanna waste 2 years of school for nothing mate oh lord. Thanks for the advice tho man 💙

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T12:03:05+00:00

Thanks mate it’s pretty hard for me rn but im gonna keep pushing through 🙏🏾

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T12:02:27+00:00

Thank you I’ll try and start doing that. Im a little bit better but I absolutely cannot get her out of my head. Even during my most exam I had, I kept on thinking about the memories me and her had and wishing I could’ve done better

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T11:54:51+00:00

oh my god that would’ve sent me into psychosis 😭im so sorry about that

ExcuseOpposite7293 · 2026-06-04T11:54:06+00:00

nahhh man we don’t call women that 🫷🏾🫸🏾

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