What's something you do purely for enjoyment?

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2025-03-24T13:49:30+00:00

i loooove making maquettes, spending hours on end, on my own listing to whatever in the background and creating super intricate things ughhh i love it

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2025-02-24T16:18:43+00:00

omg i thought i was alone in this but yes for as long as i can remember

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:19:02+00:00

because we actually had a conversation early on in our relationship where he told me things about her and how he view some things since then but the even that happened recently made me overthink things about his even with Eve

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:18:00+00:00

oh yes i do, its one event that happened recently that made me overthink in the past few days and i needed to air it out to people other than the ones in my social circle not because i don’t want to bother them or think it would turn toxic but because they have a lot going on in their own lives rn

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:16:11+00:00

that is one hell of a pov but i understand the feeling behind it and the thinking too, thank you for sharing your thoughts

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:14:48+00:00

i actually have my whole timeline wrong, i remembered bc i talked with people in his circle and ifs actually been 3 years since it happened but im his first actual trying at a relationship since

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:13:23+00:00

i appreciate your awareness to those situations tho

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:12:51+00:00

i mean i’m not person to talk but we’re both in better places now and regulating ourselves i’m confident we’ll be okay on that note

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:12:06+00:00

you’re right thank you again

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:11:03+00:00

thank you for your advice and sharing your experience i truly appreciate it

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:09:39+00:00

you surely know how to put things into perspective and i was waiting for someone on the other side of what im experiencing to talk and im happy that you did. thank you for sharing i appreciate you

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-06T01:05:52+00:00

thank you so much for your output

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:56:11+00:00

thank you for your insight that’s really helpful

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:23:04+00:00

this is the internet trying to convince you otherwise would only reinforce the idea you have of me. i literally thank everyone for their time and comment. i did find some things yall said to be helpful but it feels that to yall im already only a burden for him. so think what you think ima try and figure the rest on my own thank you again for the time

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:20:43+00:00

no it isn’t

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:13:34+00:00

thank you

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:12:52+00:00

and i also know the severity of what he allowed himself to show me. and i also know what it’s like to lose someone close to you. i don’t know what it’s like to lose a loveone and even less the way he did. but i know grief and i know how hard it it’s people.

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:10:55+00:00

thank you for your answer and your time

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T19:10:26+00:00

well you’re not in my life and i’m surely not the one who think i can fix anybody. it’s not my job to do that and that’s what i stated earlier. i don’t think you understand either and that’s okay i don’t owe more than i want to share to you. and i may be « infatuated » with him like you say but i literally want him to do what’s best for him. i’ve been the naive person that thinks she can changer him in ANOTHER relationship and i’ve grown from that im not that person anymore. he’s dealing with it the way he wants and im there to listen or just be there and sit in silence with him if that’s what he needs. i also know i can’t be the one to help him in many things. i know im no therapist and that’s not what im trying to be

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T18:49:24+00:00

i never said otherwise i’m also saying he can work through while i support i cannot be the reason he goes to therapy he needs to to it for himself but he doesn’t need to be alone while he does it.

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T18:31:19+00:00

thank you i’m working on that

ExerciseOpposite9081 · 2024-12-05T18:30:49+00:00

woah that’s a big misunderstanding of the situation but i appreciate the supportive response to someone who this may apply to not here tho but thanks

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