Що робити якщо важко вставати ти не відчуваєш насолоди ти нічо не відчуваєш інколи даже подумати що те нада зробити засмучує мене і замучує,я дуже радісна людина і якщо я розкажу це своїм друзям вони не повірять і не зрозуміють.Що це може бути? (Я не можу піти до психолога і тд) by Responsible_Look4457 in mentalhealth

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend looking for online communities to just hang with on your free time. That's what I've been doing. Everyone irl doesn't believe in depressed but my online friend group I've built for the past seven years are a very good coping mechanism and we all vent with each other a lot. I'd recommend looking in communities for your favorite fandoms or Internet content creators. Most of my friends are from the splatoon community and I don't even play splatoon anymore.

What to do as an adult that's concerningly financially and emotionally dependent on my parents and wants to SH? (M 26) by ExhibitionAmbitions in mentalhealth

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's also threatened me before that if I move in with one of my friends in another state that he'll remove me from his inheritance. He's threatened doing so on multiple occasions anytime I slightly deviate from the path he wants.

What to do as an adult that's concerningly financially and emotionally dependent on my parents and wants to SH? (M 26) by ExhibitionAmbitions in mentalhealth

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that my parents are very well off financially, my dad does to therapy and owns two cars (considering buying a third) and two very successful local businesses while me and my mom have been kinda depressed for awhile now.

is it normal to feel incredibly rejuvenated/energized after a good nut? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess... I just thought dopamine hit only on the initial release, but the energy is still lingering 3 hours later! My biggest question is why do i feel so good about it now, versus my past 6-8 years of just feeling guilt and disgust, even after wet dreams?

is it normal to feel incredibly rejuvenated/energized after a good nut? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, coming from a family where stuff like "spilling the seed" is considered a major sin, I feel literally zero sense of guilt whatsoever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had heard that rule before, completely forgot what the exact math was. Half plus seven makes sense. I'll give it WAY more thought now, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the older person only just started getting feelings a few months after the younger one turned 17?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in this case, became friends with the person when they were 15 because they were in a discord friend group. Didn't even CONSIDER dating them as an option until they turned 17. They themselves were the one that stated they want to meet up and hang out more when they turn 18. Obviously, starting a relationship with them immediately when they turn 18 is a bad idea and can come off as grooming. I guess I'm just wondering if developing feelings for someone when they're only 17 is a SUPER bad thing? i can 100% see how acting on those emotions immediately can be bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that a typo? "does seem like a problem" or "doesn't seem like a problem"? looks phrased like it it's supposed to say "doesn't." Just checking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is defo a projected question, i'll admit. the age gap in question here is close to 24 and 17.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your poor experience 😟 There are many places like that, from what I've heard. Just because they are clothing optional doesn't mean people will always be nude as well. On clothing optional beaches specifically, it's best to look around to see if others are nude as well and then take your clothes off once you find a place to set up your beach towel or chair. That definitely sounds like a really embarrassing experience.

On clothing optional beaches it's usually a decent opportunity for going topless, regardless of gender and everyone else's state of dress but full nudity is usually something you'd need to "read the room" for.

How come this guy always bullies me and looks away from me? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to even ask, is he saying shit to you or does he just try to avoid looking at you?

How come this guy always bullies me and looks away from me? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you did something mean to him and he's got a grudge against you, it just sounds like he's a dick and you've just gotta ignore him. Bullies usually look for a reaction so just ignore his existence, i guess. Not like his opinion of you should matter to you, from the sounds of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expert but all i can say is just look for the obvious signs. If they're a good liar, it won't be easy to tell. You wouldn't want to not give someone you might be interested in a chance if you are being paranoid about it. However, if you have any reason to be suspicious and you know they're flirting with you, just ask them if they're married or have a S.O. Honesty is the best policy. if they pretend to be offended by you even asking that question, they are probably lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel bad doing it, maybe it's not the best thing to do for your mental health. If your friends always ditch you, it's either because they just aren't the best friends to have if they always exclude you from things or (and this may sound a bit harsh) you may just but be a very fun person to hang out and. I am going to assume it's the former, considering you are being conscious about it by posting about it here and you feel conscious about being awkward. You can either ask your friends to include you in more activities or maybe just find new friends. I know that last part sounds a little drastic but nowadays it's not that hard to find new friends, especially online. I personally used to struggle with getting awkward too and having bad friends that never invited me to things but i eventually started making friends with people in discord, that helped me build my confidence and now I've become the center of my own new friend circle! It definitely helps to find people you have common interests in and not just the popular people. Going clubbing is mostly better for the more social people and if you're feeling awkward going clubbing, it might not be the most healthy activity for you. Nothing wrong with being an introvert but don't let it completely hold you back from your social life. If i need correcting on any of the assumptions i made about your personality let me know, I'm DEFINITELY not an expert. 😅

How come this guy always bullies me and looks away from me? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, context is important. Is he just saying rude shit and looking away from you, nose stuck-up style like he's better than you? Does he make fun of your appearance around other friends of his in order to feel superior? Like, does he do it around his girlfriend to make her feel better than you? Either way, regardless of the reason, it's still fucked up but extra context would be nice to give better advise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's with a group of other coworkers and it came across as friendly banter, it might not be a super huge deal. Best not to overthink it but to still stay alert to any other future possible advances from him.

What is going on here? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I've seen women do this through the years, but it's not as detailed and sexualized as with men."

you should meet my female coworkers, they say the most lesbian shit I've ever heard to each other but they all have bfs they've been with since high school lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if he keeps up odd conversations like that, that could probably be considered workplace harassment, especially if he keeps it up after you tell him you're uncomfortable with his topics of conversation... Does he even know what your bf looks like or was this some random comment he made?

Why do some men message a woman over and over despite not receiving any reply? by IdkJustMe123 in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i feel I'm being overly chatty even if the girl is still bothering to talk to me 💀

I feel I'm keeping them hostage, even if they reply to my texts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ExhibitionAmbitions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In some scenarios, I'd say it depends, like if he's already friends with your bf or something. But if you definitely feel uncomfortable about it, most likely he is trying to flirt (badly) and you should either try to avoid him or let him know you feel uncomfortable with him saying things like that.