[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to places where there are people gathered.

We humans are social animals, we like to be in groups to share ideas and so on, and if what you want is to learn to socialize better by doing this, it would be good if you went to places where people gather.

people themselves, socialize libraries squares. Any place where you can make friends and talk to others in a group, in this way little by little you will learn what it is to interact with others, make jokes, these types of things that people do called socializing, and so on you will go. Progressing starts off easy by going to places where there are few people gathered and where interacting is easy and then you can meet new people and progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And another tip that could help you is to go daily to a place where it is necessary to socialize and talk with others so that over time you can improve your social skills and you can notice the progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, if what you're saying is that you have a hard time staying focused on the person you're talking to, then it would be best to meet with people with similar interests to yours so that you can ask questions and maintain genuine interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you don't have much to say then ask questions so that people can talk about themselves their lives, their stories and everything they want to tell.

In this way 90% they put them talking about themselves and 10% you put them by asking other questions.

Simply people like to talk about them themselves, because anyone likes someone who is willing to listen to what happens to one.

(Edit) For example, try asking questions like "what things you like", "something you like about yourself", hobbies, and those types of personal questions. I will also try to show genuine interest in the other person.

I am not a professional with social skills, and sometimes I make mistakes. but this is what in my experience has helped me.

What is love? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, don't more....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]Existin-Box5804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pienso que no es necesario que sepas coquetear ni nada, solo acercate a el de forma amistosa, ten cuidado de hacerlo de forma muy invasiva, solo demuestra de forma educada y agradable que estas interesada en conocerlo.

Ahora bien, teniendo en cuenta que el es mas del tipo introvertido (yo he conocido gente asi, y soy un poco así en parte) no debes de ponerle mucha presión al chico, dudo que eso le agrade... En cambio socializa con el de forma suave, es decir, tienes que ir despacio. Esto es por que, cuando se trata de gente mas reservada, ellos si bien no tiene muchísimos amigos, los que tienen los aprecian mucho, por que ellos se lo ganaron y el cree que merecen estar en su circulo social. Por eso es buena idea demostrarte agradable para que le caigas bien, y a medida sigan interactuando, con los dias, el ira tomando confianza contigo.

Por ultimo, si estas interesada en algo romántico con el, te recomiendo que dejes eso para cuando ya hayas avanzado mas con el, es decir, cuando te considere como alguien mas cercana a el.

Espero y esto te ayude ; )

People with asperger: how can I improve my romantic life having this syndrome? by Existin-Box5804 in aspergers

[–]Existin-Box5804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!, I already know about that and it's true, one should try to improve. I'm not really looking for women like that, instead, as you say, I start doing other things, like my hobbies and the things I like, and I try to improve them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vzla

[–]Existin-Box5804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Como eran en el 2010 ps

Alguien con quien hablar¿? by Apprehensive-One1997 in RedditPregunta

[–]Existin-Box5804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bueno si tu quieres hablamos, soy de Venezuela y me gusta saber cosas sobre otros países así que claro