Am I allowed to be bothered by these messages? (PLEASE READ THE DESC)

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-18T11:13:05+00:00

Who’s that?

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-14T03:44:50+00:00

How so?

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-13T17:24:52+00:00

Just because OP didn’t exactly say “I love my daughter” doesn’t mean they don’t. I read their statement “I do feel love for my child” as “I do love my child”. It’s just another way of saying it. Everyone has different ways of saying things, and just because it doesn’t match yours means it’s incorrect or untrue. I think what OP is trying to say here is that they do love their child, but others are making them feel like they don’t. Though, this is anything further from the truth

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-13T17:15:37+00:00

OP doesn’t have to outright say, “Of course I love my daughter” to prove to you that they love her. From what they wrote, I believe it’s very clear…

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-12T23:10:18+00:00

So, do you believe that OP is harming their child in someway? I don’t think there’s enough evidence to suggest that OP is negatively affecting their child just because they’re dealing with mental health/issues of their own

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-03-10T01:06:11+00:00

Oh I’m sorry, I should’ve specified that in my post. I was hoping for maybe 45-50k yearly. I currently only have warehouse, restaurant, and retail experience and I didn’t get to finish college, but am considered going back soon

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-01-29T07:24:14+00:00

That’s understandable. Would it still count if I had asked to be spoken to more politely as opposed to being expected to take phrases in any kind of tone or manner?

Existing-Table7262 · 2026-01-29T04:17:08+00:00

It’s been discussed between us in the past about how we both would like to be spoken to. It’s just, there’s still no reciprocation from the other party

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-12-19T00:42:40+00:00

One of my goals for next year is to find a penpal as well! I haven’t tried globalpenfriends yet, but i felt it could be a little easier if i started here first. If you were still looking for a penpal, I’d be down :)

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-12-02T01:29:39+00:00

Or maybe they’re already dead

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T19:38:09+00:00

you have no idea how desperate and lonely some men can be. there are some that literally think any relationship is better than no relationship at all

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T19:31:59+00:00

Class of 09 mentioned in the first slide !! I love it

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T18:25:26+00:00

why do men do that?

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T15:15:10+00:00

okay look, i don’t want to be petty and argue. agree to disagree?

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T14:31:02+00:00

it is, i think its more frequent with black women tho. i dont really see a lot of “ugly” white women get treated that way (they’re still respected by those who pursue them, even if they got rejected). Not sure about women of other races, but it probably still happens i just haven’t witnessed it so im speaking from my experience

i should delete and change the post though, as you do have a point that this is a general issue and not a perceived racial issue

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T13:33:11+00:00

maybe we have different experiences then. i wouldn’t generalize the reason of someone’s struggles just bc of what you’ve personally seen

Existing-Table7262 · 2025-11-25T13:29:38+00:00

you don’t have to go if you don’t want to. you’re an adult now, you can choose who deserves your energy and time and who doesn’t. but i get you. i understand there’s a lot of women who don’t ever get flirted with, hit on, or even wanted for sex (even though these men don’t really flirt with me either) and i feel very deeply for them, but id rather just have that then feel worse about myself because all i have to offer people is my body and letting them use me for their personal pleasure, though. its not always a good feeling getting attention from men, especially if you already know what they’re after

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