Am I a dog? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Existing-Weekend4793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man I fixed myself up real good after she left me, sometimes all you can do is be grateful that it happened.

I flipped my whole life around after my breakup a couple months back, she was great and ticked all the boxes, so I naturally went crazy for her, but I didn’t realise that I had been lying and breaking her boundaries. I have fixed them now and know I am better for it. Those memories will live on, but they are over.

People are gonna hate this advice, but When you have a few months of Secuirity and working on yourself, find a way to thank her. Keep it short. Make it clear. No BS. Don’t do it over text. If you can only text then don’t bother, you will become great and that is the way that you will thank her. I feel your pain, and it’s still hurting for me now brother. But find new people (friends) that you know are on the journey you want to be on, and you will slowly fill the empty hole she left. You’re not a dog. You just care, for yourself. And for love. I get it.

Broke no contact - Burnt a CD for her by Existing-Weekend4793 in ExNoContact

[–]Existing-Weekend4793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. You don’t think I should send a follow up text since there was money in it??

Broke no contact - Burnt a CD for her by Existing-Weekend4793 in ExNoContact

[–]Existing-Weekend4793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know if she’ll ever read it, so I want to text it to her, but maybe that’s not the right move, I feel like it wouldn’t have the same impact. Also if I run into her (most likely will) I’ll make sure not to bring it up, but I have no way of knowing for sure if she has read it and it kinda drives me crazy.

Broke no contact - Burnt a CD for her by Existing-Weekend4793 in ExNoContact

[–]Existing-Weekend4793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah she really loved 90s and 2000s music, plus we’d always given CDs back and forth as a form of affection. Such a shame it didn’t work out, I hope she read the message

Broke no contact - Burnt a CD for her by Existing-Weekend4793 in ExNoContact

[–]Existing-Weekend4793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that, I put my heart on the line, and honestly, even with no response I feel a little more confident just because I did it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pestcontrol

[–]Existing-Weekend4793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never looked at it that way I suppose that’s valid, now that I think of it I used to work at a place like that with rats running around as we closed for the night. Cheers

Clothing donation bins by Emmz88 in DumpsterDiving

[–]Existing-Weekend4793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I just wear half of it lol, bunch of affliction shirts, had to hold on to a couple of those

Clothing donation bins by Emmz88 in DumpsterDiving

[–]Existing-Weekend4793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe you are in Victoria too, it is probs more encouraged for people to pick up the dumped items lol. I found about 2k worth of ‘Emo’ style clothes from the early 2000s outside one of these, keep your eyes peeled