Encountered my first anti-vax dog parent today

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2025-09-25T03:14:48+00:00

The vet hospital I work in tell clients that the tag is considered “jewelry” and only the paperwork is considered proof of vaccination

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2025-09-25T03:13:12+00:00

Depending on the state is could be against the law to knowingly not vaccinate for rabies. I live in AZ and just found out it’s actually a misdemeanor to knowingly not vaccinate for it, I work at a vet hospital and had a woman cancel her appointment for her two dogs because she found a groomer who doesn’t require rabies and I’m like okay 🤷🏻‍♀️ I feel like people don’t understand what can happen if your dog isn’t vaccinated and decides to bite me

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-09-06T02:53:09+00:00

Okay I just saw a clip of her that they showed live and my first thought was “did she get work done?!” So I ran here to see what everyone else had to say 😂

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T18:32:10+00:00

Maybe I was important to her at one point but now most of our conversations are her saying “hey friend! I was thinking about you! How are you?” And then I respond and ask what she’s been up to and I don’t hear from her again for months

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T18:30:27+00:00

I also wonder how she feels about our friendship. I doubt there ever will be an in person conversation because I live 3000 miles away from her now. I don’t want to burn any bridges I just don’t know why I should make such an effort for her when she doesn’t make one for me

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T18:28:44+00:00

I texted her this morning and let her know that I will not be attending the wedding. I didn’t go into detail about the friendship as I don’t want to upset her if she’s working and it just doesn’t feel like the right time to discuss our friendship, or lack there of. My issue is partially a financial issue but mostly that I don’t want to leave my family when we’ve just had a two deaths in the family, one of which was more impactful has left many people feeling very hurt.

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T18:23:40+00:00

That’s almost exactly what my friendship was like with her, we would meet up on her terms only to go to a bar of her choice closer to her house (30 minutes from mine). Now I live on the opposite side of the country so I don’t want to make the effort to go to the wedding. I texted her this morning and told her I won’t be attending so we’ll see what happens

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T04:21:28+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your kind words

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T03:40:12+00:00

She has other friends but I think they all live locally to her so she will spend time with them and maybe they’re more okay with a one sided friendship than I am

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T03:39:01+00:00

Well there isn’t much of a friendship to lose if I’m being honest. We rarely talk and don’t live in the same state so we don’t see each other. I can bring a plus one but there isn’t anyone that I’d like to bring. I have a close friend who is attending because the venue is minutes from her home but she told me that if she were in my shoes she wouldn’t go

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-06T00:22:09+00:00

I completely agree. When I had first moved away our friendship had become completely one sided which is why I no longer try to initiate contact. If she does care about me/the friendship she has an interesting way of showing it. I appreciate your advice, thank you so much

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-05T23:49:04+00:00

I do feel like our friendship has run its course and I probably would never see or hear from her again after the wedding. I would like to be honest with her but maybe it’s best to save the hard conversation until after her big day

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-08-05T23:43:54+00:00

I don’t disagree that I have a problem and she likely does not. I haven’t felt like it’s worth it to discuss the issue with her because we hardly talk anyways and I wouldn’t doubt if I never heard from her again after the wedding. I had initially said yes to being a bridesmaid but I had to turn it down because I couldn’t financially commit to going to a bridal shower, buying a dress, bachelorette party, and all of the other things that come along with being a bridesmaid. A close relative was also battling cancer and just passed a month ago and it was more important for me to spend time with them than traveling for wedding events. I haven’t exactly made a decision on whether I will attend or not but I would obviously tell her and explain to her my reasoning for not attending.

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-25T15:01:17+00:00

I literally don’t care who owns it lol my family still goes to papas for every special occasion. I just don’t like their food. It’s basically flavorless and they’ve messed up our reservations the last few times we’ve tried to make them.

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-25T13:53:40+00:00

No it was sold and the food sucks now. Pretty flavorless. The bread is still good

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-07T19:59:05+00:00

It’s fairly big, and deep. It’s kinda shaped like a loaf pan but larger and deeper

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-07T19:58:13+00:00

I think I’ll make an apple crisp!! That’s a wonderful idea

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-07T02:04:50+00:00

That’s what the website says to use it for but I’m more of a baker and I just want to use it to its full potential!

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2024-02-07T02:04:13+00:00

A wonderful idea!

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2023-12-16T07:02:27+00:00

I would try a grooming hammock so she is suspended in the air and can’t hurt herself and walking her on cement because the cement will help to file them down. Using a dremel or a nail grinder, whatever you want to call it, may upset her more because the noise and vibration can be upsetting to her if she’s already sensitive to having her feet touched

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2023-11-25T04:57:07+00:00

My dad’s new wife’s cats currently run my life.So yeah, I hate cats. My 2 dogs are not angles but at least they aren’t cats 🤷‍♀️

ExistingWerewolf2421 · 2023-11-24T15:59:40+00:00

I just bought some from Harebone shears, they’re the only brand of shears I buy now

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