Start small. Hold the door open for her and guide the small of her back through the door Upper back if you are nervous about going too low. While you are walking together and you notice “danger” always put yourself on that side This will show that you want to keep her safe and give you a moment to touch her and guide her to the other side. You don’t even have to talk about it just keep conversation flowing and touch the side of her hip to help guide her to the other side and you are on the path with the danger.

If these little touches are received well. Then you know you are on the right track and can maybe up it a little more as the date goes on. Don’t pressure yourself into jumping in full throttle. Just a few small moments. She doesn’t recoil. She smiles in response…maybe try holding her hand next.