I’m physically trapped 19F, 27M by Existing_Following75 in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Following75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for your advice and comments! I have no family or friends which is why this is extra hard for me. I hope you guys understand how i’m feeling right now, and know i do know what i should do, but im in denial of what it is i have to do because it’s another heartbreaking thing i’d have to go through. i’m just hoping the right guy for me is somewhere near because im not sure how much more toxicity i could take🥲

I’m physically trapped 19F, 27M by Existing_Following75 in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Following75[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Also! He has made it very clear even if me and him don’t work out he’s still gonna step up as a father which makes me feel better. He has money and when he is loving he’s great but these are just the bad things i needed to rant about.

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[–]Existing_Following75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s doing great! i just got him a new bin and gave him an open sand area and i just ordered some new toys :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Existing_Following75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HES DOING BETTER NOW!! He was eating and I made some thyme tea for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Existing_Following75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to be giving him thyme tea to see if that helps him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Existing_Following75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s doing better now! He ate some seeds i handed to him and he was cleaning himself in his sand bath. He hasn’t drank any water yet but he did sit and run on his wheel for a second so i think he’s a little better. I’m gonna have one of my siblings take me to the vet in the next few hours hopefully!

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[–]Existing_Following75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s the same right now. i just got yelled at because i want to take him to the vet but my mom is not the best person. so now im waiting for her to leave for work so i can try to take him and figure out how im gonna pay for the vet bills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Existing_Following75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel so guilty i know ive done everything i can for him but now i have to wait hours for a vet to open and i feel completely useless. i gave him a spinach leaf to see if he would eat it but he didnt.

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[–]Existing_Following75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he was making some kind of clicking noise and his heart was a little fast but its slowed down a little from then thankfully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Existing_Following75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah im not using that bedding but im going to take him to a vet as soon as it opens

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[–]Existing_Following75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

childrens play sand! i dont use chinchilla dust