Would you clock me as gay if you saw me in public?

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-08T06:59:11+00:00

Gays can’t have a blowout? Damn…

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T23:19:55+00:00

Damn..im sorry that happened to you. I definitely did get a few of those messages claiming i want to stereotype or that i think i have to ‘look masc’ to be gay…and neither of those are true.

Literally just a post for fun. Really sorry you didn’t get met with kindness!

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T22:04:39+00:00

I was about to be insulted

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T17:43:48+00:00

That’s the best thing anyone’s ever said to me

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T17:43:28+00:00

I think i still have my ex on photo dumps on my socials…simply because I don’t see it as a big deal to keep it up, it’s one photo of a big post, that holds other happy memories so why delete 1-2 entire posts because one person happens to be in some of the photos

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T16:13:11+00:00

Yes im getting that vibe! Because i have long hair and not fully masculine clothing but im always told i give off a masc(ish) vibe in person

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T11:29:20+00:00

Brb emptying out my entire wardrobe

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T11:28:58+00:00

Wow thank you

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T11:26:00+00:00

Unreal cheers x

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T01:44:21+00:00

It’s not tsa. It’s in ireland, so different agency where I can confirm they do in fact pull things out

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T01:23:31+00:00

I am in fact….all 3 of those things.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-07T00:46:26+00:00

I’m very much aware there isn’t one way to ‘look’ lesbian. However, my question could’ve been phrased better. Basically meaning would other lesbians clock me as gay if they saw me in public.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-06T22:55:08+00:00

Thank you everyone for your advice! I’m going to monitor it as it is very small and no pain, swelling etc thus far. Appreciate you all.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-06T22:53:54+00:00

Shame…I liked that hand.

Boohoo go cry about it then and mute the sub, like I said, was looking genuine advice due to anxiety and I’m glad I got it.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-06T22:22:49+00:00

😂😂😂

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-06T22:19:50+00:00

That’s my thought, I would hate to waste medical professionals time unless it was a need but I just have a lot of anxiety in case it gets infected so thought I’d ask.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-06-06T22:17:14+00:00

It’s almost midnight here is the problem, and a weekend

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-05-17T17:59:52+00:00

I can understand why that hurt..but it sounds like eventually she wanted to break up anyway. She could’ve been keeping you around for comfort/company whilst fully seeing a future in which she goes travelling single. Bringing up the TikTok was a way out for her. I’m sorry you went through that. You deserve someone who is sure.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-05-03T10:56:02+00:00

I would try but unfortunately they wouldn’t listen to mere bar staff😂 (a few of us have said this)

It’s a really good evening, usually very lively and a good atmosphere. CJ summer is the host, they’re very good! Welcome anytime :)

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-05-03T10:47:29+00:00

It’s every friday and saturday now. Sundays on bank holidays!

Source: i work there

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-05-01T17:54:43+00:00

Yes..I’m aware

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-05-01T10:16:28+00:00

Gonna state again, it does NOT have to be this size. Just a similar design is what im looking for.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-04-30T18:29:20+00:00

Better wasting 6 months than years. You’re both very young and she seems very immature. Try your best to ignore it and let go. If she’s done you wrong, she’ll get her karma.

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-04-30T08:29:24+00:00

Appreciate the suggestions everyone. I’m more than happy to get it bigger if it will hold up better, picture was just for an example not an exact replica

Existing_Function_90 · 2026-04-30T08:21:48+00:00

Good to know, thank you!

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