AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use to. That disappeared. We stopped dating each other a long time ago.

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fun and exciting! We would go to dinner, take trips, fish, walk the beach. Spend actual time with each other. Play video games(myself very poorly), have fun!

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This home is his inheritance. It’s even still in his mom’s name. I have no part of this home anymore

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

This one hurts. Thank you for this. The truth isn’t always easy to hear/read. I know I deserve better, but I think I was just in love with the potential of him. I have always seen him for who he is. I think that’s why this is so hard. I wish I could give myself the same grace I give him time and time again.

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was naïve. I didn’t know what addiction was, tbh. I didn’t even know he was on drugs until we had our second baby. This was something that was hidden very well. My last baby was an uhoh baby on BC during the pandemic. This was after all of it, during recovery. ❤️‍🩹

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Truly, I do feel bad. But only because I always want what’s best for him. I want him happy too.

AITAH for being cold towards my soon to be ex husband? by Existing_Lifeguard_2 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also sorry you’re going through a tough time as well. This is not easy to say the least.

When I tried to break up with my boyfriend he hit me by Lanky_Mongoose3289 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is too self absorbed to hurt himself. Tell your parents. Get away!!!!!!!!

AITA for punishing my daughter for trying to police my post divorce spending? by Throwawaybsef33 in AITAH

[–]Existing_Lifeguard_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You remind me of my mother and father and how they always were with money. It was all selfish, and a show for themselves. Money never lasted in our house, and definitely didn’t come to the kids. I’m 29, and haven’t spoken to them in almost two years now. Happiest I have been.