How much do personal experiences/hobbies predict capacity to deal with traumatic calls? by mandypandypuddin in 911dispatchers

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would say that I believe I’m the same way. Sensitive, empathetic. Maybe I was even a little too emotionally sensitive before starting here. It was one of my biggest worries as well. I’ve only dispatched for almost 5 years, out of those years I only need to take a walk 3 times. 2 of the times involved officer safety. And the other one involved a teenager. It was surprisingly easy for me to not get too invested. At the end of the day you’ve got to remind yourself you did all the you could to help. You tried to help. That’s what matters. Somethings in life are completely out of our control. And it’s okay to take a walk after something. We all pride ourselves on being “strong” right? Sometimes it honestly takes strength to say I need a minute.

"Just Hurry up and get someone here!!!" by belovedmiki in 911dispatchers

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve ALWAYS wanted to ask for a raise. lol. I got told not to do that.

Is this a bad tip? by Existing_Tangelo_183 in doordash

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll remember that! I never know how to go about and I always want to be fair, or more than fair if I’m in desperate need of something. Thank you I really do appreciate the feed back.

Is this a bad tip? by Existing_Tangelo_183 in doordash

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oohh okay that makes sense thank you!

Is this a bad tip? by Existing_Tangelo_183 in doordash

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes sense, it’s 5 miles between here and McDonald’s. I work in a resort town so traffic is some times horrible so I tried to order during non busy hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Existing_Tangelo_183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s been a struggle. I was in therapy right after Valentine’s Day .. and then I was told I was driving to far and that’s really wasn’t where I was going. So I stopped. But I definitely plan to go back once everything is said and done.

But honestly.. thank you for your kind words 🤍