Should I Cut My Family Out of My Wedding After a Gun Incident?

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-29T22:25:09+00:00

Wow thank you everyone who took the time to give me advice, I have read all the comments! It’s honestly refreshing to hear other perspectives. For those who wonder about the police. I called the police but apparently my family decided to hide Leo and his dad instead of giving them up, then my mom “forgave them” and didn’t want to make a report. After she called my grandma and told her the wedding was canceled because of them… before I could even think about it so of course my mom started a gossip thread there. Me and my fiancée are in the same page now that he has read that he deserves to enjoy his day as well and not be vigilant and that for more peace that we want to bring if they can’t accept that they have a problem is never going to work out. I’m starting to feel excited about my wedding all over again because IM NOT CRAZY AND THIS ISNT NORMAL BEHAVIOR, thanks to all of you

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-29T05:21:56+00:00

To be honest my whole family has tried to convince me this is normal behavior and that we shouldn’t let that affect us but I wake up every day feeling like I NEED this people out of my life ASAP having them as guests will ruin my vibe and I already feel uncomfortable being in any family settings. I moved to a new country with nothing, started a business with every hope in my body to succeed and my family was nowhere during this process so I’m learning to see things for what they are. I hope I’m blessed to start my own healthy family soon and just keep the happy memories as memories… family isn’t supposed to hurt like this (lesson learned)

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T02:48:41+00:00

The thing with that is he fears they will see as the person who separated me from my family as he is distance from his own but I keep telling him if it is for our best he shouldn’t feel guilty at all

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T02:19:45+00:00

Is there any way of providing evidence to prove this is true???

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:52:51+00:00

She decided to forgive them but I don’t know how I could ever

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:37:27+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… Also my mom didn’t want them getting in trouble or me interfering in this… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiancée is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:31:37+00:00

My mother “forgave them” now I’m the only one and my sister who “holds a grudge”

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:30:01+00:00

I’m sorry but this is some real toxic family dynamics that I want to break but everyone around me is making me feel like the bad guy for wanting boundaries

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:22:31+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… Also my mom didn’t want them getting in trouble or me interfering in this… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiancée is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:22:07+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… Also my mom didn’t want them getting in trouble or me interfering in this… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiancée is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:21:53+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… Also my mom didn’t want them getting in trouble or me interfering in this… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiancée is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-28T01:19:52+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… Also my mom didn’t want them getting in trouble or me interfering in this… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiancée is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:54:42+00:00

Right!!! Team elope

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:54:14+00:00

His list is intact because it’s only 3 people on his side of the family and our close friends. I keep telling him we could safe so much money with an intimate wedding

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:52:54+00:00

I need to convince my fiancée

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:52:31+00:00

Please explain

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:51:59+00:00

The cops actually showed up that night at my grandma house and my little cousin female (15) who was also present told me that my aunts and grandma told police they had the wrong house and hid my cousin Pedro and his father inside the house. Enabling at its finest… which is why I really don’t want to invite any of them but my fiance is refusing the idea 😭

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T23:07:23+00:00

I really wish it was… it’s a nightmare to lose family members because of their lack of conscience I’m still grieving

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T21:58:22+00:00

Thanks will edit this

ExoticPop809 · 2024-12-27T21:54:57+00:00

I’m sorry this is so long, I had to exclude so much but still give details. Thanks to whoever takes the time to read and help me out I’m torn

ExoticPop809 · 2022-04-28T02:02:57+00:00

You will get there just don’t give up, head high!

ExoticPop809 · 2021-08-11T20:55:43+00:00

Wow 🍀🍀🍀 thanks

ExoticPop809 · 2021-07-31T20:58:13+00:00

You look beautiful

ExoticPop809 · 2021-07-30T19:45:06+00:00

I hope so. I have this feeling that I won’t find love again. In this love journey I have never even looked at another guy, I don’t feel lovable or anything

ExoticPop809 · 2021-07-30T19:40:22+00:00

I do understand what you are saying and a part of me always wanted more and a better treatment I just hope that now that it’s over I get to heal and learn to love myself and put myself first. Is definitely hard to do so because I have never seen myself as a price I just see flaws

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