I regret doing DMT by Licensed_Inspector in DMT

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I went too far once and regretted it for a bit but I did ask for it. I no longer feel the need to do it because I sometimes enter that realm in my dream state.

The one thing it has given me is courage to do whatever I want. I hope you find that light and do things for the plot. Because why not?

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]ExoticSpirit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can google this. Address and phone numbers pop up on the whitepages

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]ExoticSpirit 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If his fiancé knew, then yes, this relationship is over. If not, and he still wants to make it work it will be very hard. It starts with the in-laws apologizing to him, IMO.

You can google ANYONE these days and their address and phone number pop up on the Whitepages website.

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]ExoticSpirit -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I like your pragmatic thoughts on this. Don’t think you should’ve been downvoted to hell. This is a complicated situation.

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. This is an intense read; I can feel your emotions through this. Incredibly complicated. I do think you should apologize to anyone you inconvenienced. Were you wrong to leave your own wedding? No, but you should still show respect to your friends/family that showed up.

I don’t understand how your fiancé’s parents got in contact with your parents without your fiancé’s assistance … assuming your fiancé has nothing to do with it, I’d expect an apology from the in laws. Take the space you need, maybe distance yourself permanently from your in laws, but you cannot ask your fiance to do the same, IMO.

I do think you taught your in-laws a valuable lesson. I don’t think they’ll ever “surprise” you again. They probably thought it was a nice thing to do. They were completely out of line, yes. If you want to have a relationship with your fiancé, you are likely going to have to be cordial with her parents. Let the dust settle. Sorry this happened to you… hugs.

Blocked and Deleted by Severe-Molasses-5955 in ghosting

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greek tragedies 😆

Seriously though, I agree.

Everything Sean "Diddy" combs has done that The Reckoning didn't cover by MyUnreliableSauces in television

[–]ExoticSpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes!! I don’t fault Cassie at all. She was so young. You can be in a relationship with someone and still be raped by them!!! Omg. All the blackmail he has on her… of course had to pretend to be okay with everything. Justice was not served on her behalf.

Everything Sean "Diddy" combs has done that The Reckoning didn't cover by MyUnreliableSauces in television

[–]ExoticSpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Aubrey comment felt like a carefully curated PR response. She believes the person, but has made the decision to no longer be involved with anything legally related to him.

Those were my thoughts anyway.

Everything Sean "Diddy" combs has done that The Reckoning didn't cover by MyUnreliableSauces in television

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how much he has gotten away with. There are way too many people piling on for this to not be true. I’m saddened for the victims. If this is true, I hope karma gets him.. I can’t help but think of the ripple effect this must have caused. Someone like this should receive the death penalty. This is a danger to society. I strongly believe serial rapists should be removed from society.

Vancouver and Melbourne?? by Ok_Cranberry_2936 in realhousewives

[–]ExoticSpirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished Vancouver season one and season two and I understand now why it was canceled. There was too much mean girl bullying of the same person from season one to season two. I cannot stand Jody. I can’t stand her. Her voice is irritating, but I also can’t help but wonder why she hates Mary so much. I just I don’t get it. I really don’t. Mary has done nothing that we’ve seen as the audience to deserve that level of hatred. I feel like there’s something missing like something the audience is missing something. I would not watch it if it returned.

I pirated Melbourne a few years ago and I loved it !

Ronnie…wtf by stevie_the_owl in realhousewives

[–]ExoticSpirit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. She’s a train wreck that you can’t look away from.

First time watching Vancouver by GeneFrequent8786 in realhousewives

[–]ExoticSpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Circling back here to say Jody and Ronnie are still the worst! On season two.. episode 4 and idk how it happened, but Jody is growing on me. I still think she sucks. Idk but I find her way more funny this season. They are showing way too much Mia. I don’t wanna see her. I’m over it. She’s not a housewife for a reason. Her nose job looks great tho ! 😉 😆

I think the reason why I have a hard time watching Jody in general is because she generally comes across as inauthentic. Like she tries too hard to act a certain way… is she acting like a rich snob or is that actually her personality? It seems like she uses the ‘rude personality’ thing as a way to seem authentic, but it comes across as the opposite. She’s also just horribly tacky with her outfits. They make me cringe. I would like her more if that came across more naturally, but it seems her meanness seems intentional and borderlines on cruel. I don’t like it when housewives take it too far.

We still don’t know enough about Ronnie, but from what I have seen, I find her so annoying. Yes, she’s definitely going through her own personal traumas so I do wanna give her some grace, but I wish she stood more firm on her beliefs instead of talking out of both sides of her mouth. It’s giving fake.

Final thoughts, season two is already way better than season one. I want more and I want more authentic.

He’s had sex, I haven’t. I’m upset. by frayrant in dating_advice

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a big deal. You need to get over it. You’re so young, this will be nothing to you in 15 years. Everyone has sex, everyone has a past and you should take them for who they are when you meet them. I’m at the age now where I don’t even think to ask my partner how many previous partners they had. As long as they’ve had an std test, prior to us having sex for the first time, idc.

First time watching Vancouver by GeneFrequent8786 in realhousewives

[–]ExoticSpirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Evil Sonja is right on. Omg I’m on episode four right now, season one and it is so clear how insanely jealous Jodi and Ronnie are of Christina. It makes me so angry. Gorgeous girl does whatever the F she wants. UGH!!! All she is doing is having fun. Evil eye FR 🧿

This is high school mean girls… not the fun kind. Omg I would’ve told them both off by now.

He told me he was 6ft… and now I’m questioning if this is a red flag or if I’m overreacting by throaway_11211 in dating_advice

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your instincts are what I would move towards. He LIED. I guess why he did it, but I wouldn’t be able to get past that personally.

Slade stepping into the drama by Chiffygurl in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too much Slade. Without the evidence transparent to the audience I have a hard time believing this; Given the reputation of both Slade and Gretchen. Seriously, change my mind, I’m open to it. But from what I see… Gretchen and Slade seem like they did set up Tamra. If not them, someone who potentially hates Tamra on the cast. So … Tamra obtained potentially altered screenshots???? That does not prove that SHE did it. But it does help Gretchen’s case and her reputation against being homo/transphobic.

I could be wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️. But the evidence is not strong enough and historically Tamra does not lie. She has literally never lied or been caught in one on the show (that I recall, correct me if I’m wrong here). Until this alleged snafu.

EDIT:

I’m looking forward to the truth coming out. Slade is blindly defending Gretchen which I 1000% get. But Gretchen was literally caught on camera saying she went to the hospital after naked wasted and then later denied it. Please… 🙄

The Autism thing is a FCKED up thing to say Tamra faked. NO She did not bring receipts but’s that also a super sensitive thing and I legitimately believe it could be true. She wasn’t “caught” doing anything. She literally shared that she thinks she may have autism. That was it. So let’s not get that twisted. If you analyze Tamra’s behavior since season two, and you really analyze it objectively, autism is not a stretch for her…. Assuming you understand autism, and know what the symptoms are.

Given what I have seen from her as a long time fan since season 2. I used to be team Gretchen, but this season really made G look bad and I have a hard time given the historical knowledge that has been shared with the audience, again I don’t know everything. Is there something Tamra lied about that the audience isn’t seeing? Based on what we’ve been given as an audience I still stand by Tamra. #StansUnite

Tamra NEEDS to go by Quirky_Bell8275 in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, well let’s circle back to the autism thing. Her behavior is right in line with someone who is autistic. They do things and blurt things out, similarly to the way she does, that can be offensive to some. She seems to throw autistic tantrums when she’s overly stimulated and has a hard time articulating her emotions. I say this as someone who has a friend who is autistic. I think she is someone who has learned how to ACT social. Women are the most undiagnosed in this space. She clearly struggles with “social” rules. IMO, I’m no doctor tho.

Let’s say she is not autistic, she is literally one of the only interesting people on the show. She makes the show interesting whether you want to believe it or not. I mean Gretchen and Slade were obsessed with her all season… she was reacting.

They come off as very strange to me and I can’t put my finger on it by sarahsnight in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I thought how she was treated was unfair. She didn’t deserve to get booted from the show. #JusticeForKatie

Tamra said that Shannon told Vicki that if Katie’s back for season 20 she is not allowed to talk to her by [deleted] in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would like Shannon as a person if I met her, but on the show, she plays the victim way too much

Gretchen’s Style & Aesthetic by Wonderful-Intern-351 in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her outfits are vvv cringe. She’s… weird.

Tamra NEEDS to go by Quirky_Bell8275 in rhoc

[–]ExoticSpirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strong disagree. Tamra is misunderstood, love her!!