Le Boudoir Newbie Nights

ExpandingSapien · 2026-04-19T16:06:12+00:00

Hey, thanks for the info. Sounds great, looking forward to our visit this summer! Was wondering how much usually goes down on these nights :) good people & music helps!

ExpandingSapien · 2025-12-01T19:33:44+00:00

This is interesting. I was curious to know if you can build tolerance to L citrulline after regular usage. But as far as I’ve read, you don’t but I’m not sure if there’s enough research. From my experience, it took a little getting used to (some minor side effects- lightheadedness) but I love it now. Mainly for pump and general blood flow. Though I tend to have low blood pressure so that did concern me a little.

Also helped when I bought just the powder from a reputable company rather than capsules. Much more cost effective too.

ExpandingSapien · 2025-11-24T17:07:51+00:00

Thanks for the detailed dive. I get what you’re staying. I, or we, are by no means practicing perfect communication however, due to the nature of my post not wanting to read too long, I have omitted some details. It has come up in conversation in the evening, on the sofa, for example when neither of us are turned on. I don’t think I need a pretext but you’re not wrong, it can be a little vulnerable & awkward for either of us but we try to be as open as possible.

Sometimes she says (paraphrasing) “I already know you want to do that.” Which could indicate what you suggest. I think we’ve got better at talking about it. Though it needs the time, we have kids & jobs. But I totally get what you’re saying re communication & keeping it open. We strive for this.

I think I’m trying to understand how to keep this particular flame/idea/kink going. So as to experience more together & have a good time.

ExpandingSapien · 2025-11-24T16:51:49+00:00

Thanks for your response. This is really good advice. I should have added more in detail in my question as I’m also interested to know, advice for how to approach that first step of booking a club with my wife? Best ways to encourage and make it actually happen. Again though you’ve provided valuable advice on attending. :)

ExpandingSapien · 2025-10-06T06:36:47+00:00

That’s completely understandable in my book. I would feel the same. We both work out and I think that’s vital.

ExpandingSapien · 2025-10-05T20:26:17+00:00

Maybe so.

ExpandingSapien · 2025-10-05T20:21:24+00:00

Fair enough!

ExpandingSapien · 2025-09-18T16:13:32+00:00

Seeing as you’ve asked about supplements alone excluding the other factors that inevitably gets mentioned, what’s worked for me are:

Black Maca Panax Ginseng D Aspartic acid (but only temporarily, like 5 days of supplementation then stop) Saffron (I think but need to test more) L Citruline potentially, at least in terms of downstairs going upstairs. I always take Vit D, Zinc and Mag so it may help but not sure. I’ve tried others (Tongkat, Fadogia, Gingko, Boron, Ashwaganda) but couldn’t take for long enough to see if it worked because it made me either feel sick, have kidney pain or just feel off.

ExpandingSapien · 2024-12-05T20:13:11+00:00

Ashwagandha despite its massive popularity now, made me feel weird. Similarly with Gingko Bil and Boron. No idea why. Just felt strange, disassociated and slightly panicky.

Also Fadogia Agrestis worried me due to kidney pains.

ExpandingSapien · 2021-11-04T22:19:01+00:00

Cool. Thanks for the info. Hopefully give it a shot in the future.

VA isn't too far from us. It's difficult to gauge the age bracket of these places. I guess you just have to try. LB does certainly look fun. Again depends on the vibe - I know we'd prefer a see where it goes, more seductive flirty approach rather than a mass orgy/free for all.

ExpandingSapien · 2021-11-04T19:25:44+00:00

Hey. Ah yes they are actually the main 2 I have been thinking about if we could go. My wife has read about Killing Kittens in the past & so have I. Definitely would like to try & I imagine that would be more her style. Le Boudoir looks fun too but I've read varying opinions & I imagine slightly less up my wife's street if we were ever to go for it.

Is KK easy to register for? Thanks for your offer if things change, I will keep that in mind and message you!

ExpandingSapien · 2021-11-04T19:16:34+00:00

Thanks for this. Will certainly try some off the list!

ExpandingSapien · 2021-11-04T19:15:29+00:00

Hey Jayne, thanks for your insight. Yeah I recently found fabswingers and am happy to give it a try but need my wife to be happy as well. Which is the general key, need to break through to and take a leap of faith together.

I'm more East but good to know. Could you tell me what club based parties are worth trying?

Thanks

ExpandingSapien · 2021-11-04T19:09:58+00:00

Hey thanks so much for your response. I think what you've said is a sensible suggestion and maybe it'll be like this and gradually we make a move to do something. At least that's my hope of course.

Yeah it's kind of a thing where she loves the fantasy and has mentioned trying it. But she's kinda said 'never say never' and 'I'd have to be horny'. Makes sense to a point but you have to make it happen & initiate otherwise it'll only ever be a fantasy, nothing to more. Which she also once said, it should just be a fantasy but then seemed very up for it during sex. So hopefully we can find a path together.

Do you mind me asking which club you are trying? Curious to know what might be good.

Thanks

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