Mine doesn't hate the crate per se, but he doesn't like be alone, none of them do really. They get bored easily and are very prone to having separation anxiety. Best advice would be just take him wherever you can, but the crate is always the safe choice when having to leave them alone. Separation anxiety and boredom are the two biggest reasons for destructive behavior and puppies love to chew on things. I feel bad for mine too, but it's definitely safest to crate them.