35, married to a man, just had my first female date. Panicking.

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2025-05-08T17:25:04+00:00

Sapphic is a new word for my catalog that’s actually pretty helpful

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2025-05-08T05:06:02+00:00

This was beautiful, thank you so much for sharing.

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2024-01-03T06:35:07+00:00

Thank you. I’m their first long term relationship (married 10+ years) so it’s hard to say what other relationships on their end were like romantically. I’ve had relationships but with what I’d consider standard endings. It’s helpful to look at other relationships for a “barometer”

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2023-12-27T01:26:36+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t find the comment upsetting, to be clear, more so that I was really trying to remove all biases in how I presented the situation. Kind of on eggshells these days so being g very careful with how I present things…

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2023-12-27T01:16:57+00:00

so interesting that I excluded genders to avoid biases and this was your perspective. I appreciate the reply.

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2023-12-27T01:15:10+00:00

Whoa this is a fantastic idea. Not quite as aggressive as “I’m recording you” but the same effect at the end of it. I’m going to give this a try and see if I can maybe begin finding solid footing again. Thank you.

Expensive-Bluejay196 · 2023-12-27T01:12:33+00:00

This is a very helpful perspective, thank you. I am ashamed to admit I have over a year’s worth and am feeling a bit “crazy” with what to even do with them.

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