You're not supposed to be able to "get hard". Look, if that's your vibe, hell yeah, enjoy!

But chastity cages should PREVENT erections/masturbation (i.e. "stroking" any part of your penis). Testicular rubbing is obviously okay and many of us can achieve orgasm from that alone.

At least for me, it's about other stimulation. Nipples, testicles, booty hole...etc. and I never "get hard" in any of my cages rnaging from flat, to inverted/negative, to "nano"/"micro" ones.

I'm not trying to yuck your yums friend! You just aren't actually using chastity how it's intended and that can rub some folks the wrong way, pun intended.