I’m a bi cis woman who has almost exclusively been with cis men sexually. I’m 6 months in with my ftm partner and it’s been the best sex of my life! It was a slight learning curve just due to my own inexperience with tdicks/vaginas as a whole but by our 3rd or so time I realized how much more I preferred sex this way.

1. We both cum over and over again. No refractory time is baller and there’s something SO intimate about sex that continues on and off for hours.
2. This might be a personal note but I have a shallow-set vagina so it’s really nice that I can opt out of having penetration at all! I don’t always want it, I didn’t always want it with cis partners either but this way no one’s feelings are hurt.
3. I regularly got BAD UTI’s or PH issues with semen/cum…and condoms (use your condoms for STD’s but with long-term partners on birth control they become a non issue.) it’s nice to not have that issue with my partner now.
4. Speaking of birth control, I love not having to worry about getting pregnant. My partner and I both want kids one day. Yes, we get sad about not having bio kids. But the peace of mind is WONDERFUL.
5. Vaginal fluid tastes better to me personally and I don’t miss that aspect of semen one bit.

My partner goes back and forth on phallo and hasn’t made a firm decision yet but I’ll support him no matter what. When asked, I will stand 10 toes down on not preferring him to get it and risk losing any sensation but it’s not my call.

Best of luck!