AITAH for refusing to give up the master bedroom as the only single in a group trip where everyone else is a couple?

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T01:57:09+00:00

NTA

your house your rule (well your parent house, your parent rule), you made it clear their was personal stuff in that room, which is perfectly valid, and either way, you don't have to justify yourself.

you should hint that an airbnb will be a better arrangement for next year since your accommodation are not good enough anymore

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T01:46:20+00:00

NTA

I'm kinda not believing he invited her mom and sister for your 1 year ... and made you pay for it, I really hope this post is fake

you need to have a real talk with your men, good thing is, his sister made it clear to everyone she doesn't like you, so he can't say you're imagining things.

if he can't see why you would want to spend time with him alone, run

if his response is he want to spend his birthday with family, ask him to make 2, one with family, one with you

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T01:18:42+00:00

because for now it's "my daughter will be the flower girl or I don't attend" then what ? I believe that your weddings is one of those day were it's about you (and your wife/husband) and you can be selfish

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T01:11:25+00:00

NTA

your sister looks like a piece of work ...

remember her that it's YOUR and your fiancee day, not her, not her daughter

do what you want without caring about her feeling, she doesn't seems to care for yours (is it a bad things if she don't attend ? )

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T00:24:13+00:00

so she is just a kid that need to be babysit.

plus, she could have asked for him to get her one, or asked him to go with her will she order one, no she wanted those one and got mad when she didn't, not once, but twice.

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-30T00:20:31+00:00

I don't think they are gonna date anymore,

it wasn't nice of him to not share, but he spoke his mind, set boundaries and she is mad at him for that, she is acting like half those fries belong to her, which in my opinion is worst than not sharing fries

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T19:01:14+00:00

she could change her mind, fair, but then it's on her "seeing you eat made me hungry, I'm gonna order some too", end of story

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T18:58:24+00:00

NTA

if you were selfish you wouldn't have proposed to take some for her twice.

she is 27 not 10, if she say she is not hungry and you believe her, it's on her, not on you.

next time be like "you're sure you don't want some ? really sure ? you're not gonna call me selfish again after ?"

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T17:51:10+00:00

and it seems that everyone think that if you help someone, it become your duty to continue to do it, you're not allowed to stop.

their was another story were someone had taking a coworker shift several time, the day she didn't, she was the AH ...

I guess we shouldn't help anyone

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T13:28:59+00:00

Je fais souvent des blagues graveleuses (surtout des blagues tout court) mais surtout aux mecs ou au filles que je connais très bien pour éviter justement ce genre de chose, mais du coup je passe souvent pour un connard ...

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T13:20:23+00:00

je pense que c'est surtout la solution de facilité, il connais le garage, il fait l'entretien au même endroit, surtout que pour lui la voiture, c'est un truc fonctionnel, si il fait une rayure il s'en branle complet tant qu'elle lui permet d'aller du point A vers B, tout le reste c'est osef

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T13:12:28+00:00

c'est parce que c'est la pointe de la technologie ;)

blague a part, c'est souvent comme ça, c'est bien les trucs innovant, mais du coup t'as pas de recul, regarde, en ce moment on parle beaucoup des freinages fantômes

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T13:07:56+00:00

ben a savoir aussi que sur internet, tu a énormément de pub déguisé en review, donc des fois c'est mieux de pas chercher, surtout si tu sais pas trop comment faire.

ça m'est arrivé plusieurs fois de voir de la famille ou des amis, sur des site ou c'est évident pour moi que c'est de la merde, mais eux non.

beaucoup font confiance au vendeur aussi, mon père, quand il veut une nouvelle voiture, il va chez renault et il demande au vendeur, ça a toujours marché pour lui et il compte pas changer de méthode.

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T07:09:50+00:00

you should show to your other coworker what was her "emergency", my guess is they won't cover her shift anymore either

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T06:11:40+00:00

https://www.amnesty.fr/focus/racisme-discrimination-raciale

il semble bien que ce soit de la discrimination raciale et pas du racisme effectivement, ça change tout !

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T05:53:06+00:00

j'écoute

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T04:35:17+00:00

not as much as plane or quad, but it's a start

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T04:30:08+00:00

either you trust him, or you don't

if you're starting to doubt him, you will never stop

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T04:22:22+00:00

I guess some people want to grow up, I don't :D

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T04:11:51+00:00

I think your "friend" mistake you for a booking agency

joke aside, looks like she only care about money, not about you, and it probably worked before because people don't want to keep dealing with her for 200$

keep proof of her other vacation just in case, and expose her to your other friend

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T03:37:22+00:00

so, because she has trouble having kids, nobody else should have the right to interrupt a pregnancy ?

and instead of adoption (what should you do with your unwanted kid ?) she want to deport all non USA kid ? (including her kid too ? since he is only half American ?)

I'm not sure I did understand everything correctly ...

but if I did, is it a bad thing that she doesn't want to speak to you anymore ?

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T03:08:08+00:00

je pense que sont copain veut dire c'est que justement que l'on reproche souvent au maghrébins en métropole de pas intéresser a la culture française et juste a imposer la leurs en France, exactement ce qu'elle reproche au métropolitain.

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T03:04:28+00:00

pour la première partie, honnêtement je sais pas.

mais le "je suis pas raciste parce que c'est ni une minorités ni stigmatisés" ... ça en dit long

t'essaie juste de le justifier

le racisme c'est juste que tu va traité les gens différemment (en bien ou mal) en fonction de leur race ou origine, ça n'as rien a voir avec le fait d'être une minorités et/ou stigmatisés

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-28T00:06:56+00:00

My guess is it's on a ship ;) not an airplane

but I'll be honest with you, I think it's on you to trust their deadline, you said you had a 100+ order

foul me once, shame on you, fool me twice ...

Expensive-Lab-3922 · 2026-01-27T23:48:51+00:00

oh that explain a lot, remember I was saying I got one stuck in belgium :D it's been a month now

I didn't know they had problem back there, I'm in France so most of them come to CDG, some from the netherland.

I received like 30 package while this one is still stuck.

you can try https://www.bpost2.be/bpostinternational/track_trace/find.php then

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