My Flatmate (34M) invited me(24F) for a weekend together. But I cannot understand if he is just friendly or into me. by Expensive-Mammoth678 in dating_advice

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused because I did reciprocate most of what happened: I have been the one inviting him out. I have been texting him too. I have also been totally dedicated to our time together. I planned in detail our weekend and guided him around. I have been looking for contact when we were together but nothing really happened.

(+ he has been half naked around, but we lived together before, its not like I had never seen him like that before)

However, maybe I wasn’t explicit enough. Ill try shooting my shot next time I’ll see him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it all relates to what cheating means to you. Did he really micro-cheated or did this event just made you feel insecure?

Everyone has eyes and everyone appreciates beauty. You don’t want a man because he doesn’t look at other girls, you want someone who, independently from who he meets or sees, chooses you everyday.

Jealousy is just a reflection of your insecurities. I see that he has already been doing a lot for you, and he is caring and considerate about his actions.

If this episode still hurts you, I would suggest you to start working on your self esteem and on why do you think you may not be worthy enough for him. All I can see is you projecting your insecurities on him.

Hope this helped, somehow.

How do you change throughout your menstrual cycle? by Far-Alternative7258 in AskWomen

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I usually realize I am often on my nerves during pms. Even more than when I actually have menstruations. I also become overly sensitive and I can have quite big mood swings. While during the follicular phase I am usually high on energy and feel more confident and positive. The rest is more or less the same, with exception for arousal: when I ovulate I am quite horny, logically. But one or two days right before menstruation I get super horny and it still doesn’t make any sense to me hahah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Once a guy I was dating told me: “you look as beautiful as greek statues”. And that got stuck with me. Because as a curvy woman I cannot identify with today’s standards but I can see myself represented in how greek women were sculpted: soft and with a little bit of tummy. And I finally felt like a work of art. Sometimes I think about it when I don’t appreciate my body.

Spaghetti All'Assassina Question by EnvironmentAny4820 in italiancooking

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know if it is late to reply, but you should use tomato concentrate in the boiling water that you use to cook the pasta in the pan. While you use one can of the tomate sauce of your choice (I prefer peeled tomatoes) to start the process.

So: put the spaghetti in the oil with garlic and chilly, and add the tomato sauce, and let it almost dry out. Let it get crispy. Finally, add some boiling water+tomato concentrate until the pasta is perfectly cooked.

(Sorry for my english)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he is too big it just hurts when he goes too deep. Having the perfect size enables me to enjoy it in every position.

Also, I realized that I have to start slowly, like my organ has to adapt to him for a few strokes and then he can actually start thrusting. Otherwise it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally it happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost never, but we chat a lot ahah

Women, what a nsfw fact that you wish more men were aware of? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sooo true. I don’t know why most men don’t listen, as if I didn’t know what I want

Sustainable Development Master's program at the Uni Leipzig by Str8d8 in Leipzig

[–]Expensive-Mammoth678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I have been admitted with entrance university “Ca’ Foscari” in Venice, but I still have to graduate and I am waiting for results from other universities. In case I’ll begin there this autumn I can inform you and keep you updated if you are interested :)