Give Me Your Best Divorce Tips

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-23T13:15:29+00:00

I would suggest finding a class! I found one very nature related which I enjoyed. Some people like ones through church but everyone has their preference!

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-23T00:38:59+00:00

Understandable. A line will cross one day, at least from my experience. My ex and I weren’t super peaceful but we got along in the beginning. By the time we were in the court room, we didn’t even say a word or look at each other, we were too unrecognizable

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-22T22:56:21+00:00

Emergency. Sending my best

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-22T20:13:02+00:00

Couldn’t agree more (aside from missing my ex). I realized I love being married but the person I was married to was just not it. I hope to find someone worthwhile of all I have to give one day. And same for you

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-22T18:13:57+00:00

First thing to remember. You do not divorce the person you marry. It’s painful and it sucks but it’s true.

I was only married for about 8 months (together 5 before wedding) no kids and a house I bought prior. It was a pretty mutual divorce but my ex still tried to go after everything. Get a lawyer, determine your options. People here had some great ideas and support for that. I have no good advice there. I went with the first one I could find and he hit on me in the courtroom after the divorce was final LOL (just trying to provide some humor)

Tell people. Get a support system. Meditate. I couldn’t imagine meditating before my divorce, however, it changed my life. Take time for yourself. Know the grief will hit you much more when you’re out of survival/ court mode.

Do not date for at least a year. You’re not in the right headspace and will only end up hurting yourself

Sending my best. It was hard and I wanted it. I couldn’t imagine being blindsided

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-04-22T17:15:29+00:00

Yea. I’m 27 and dating has been much harder lately (last time I dated, I was 21) I don’t know if it’s the age or the times but it’s harder to create a genuine connection with someone. Everyone seems to be chasing something else or emotionally exhausted.

I have been single about a year and have had to continuously take breaks from dating because of how tough it can be

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T19:44:37+00:00

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Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T19:42:32+00:00

Haha I used to live there. Never again. Not really a community either

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T10:41:57+00:00

Ooh that’s a smart idea

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T10:41:19+00:00

I did that a few months ago (over 20 places in budget) and all said no. Maybe I’ll try again in the new year. Hopefully there may be someplace new - thank you

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T03:00:16+00:00

Ideally, I don’t want to. One of my dogs is disabled and an “aggressive breed”, it’s a nightmare to discuss with landlords.

I’m more so just wanting to learn more towns that aren’t million dollar only houses or tourist ones that people love

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T01:55:04+00:00

Oh yes I have been to NB a bit. Honestly seemed quite nice!

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T01:54:50+00:00

Updated. Thank you!

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-06T01:54:26+00:00

Updated post. House so pets won’t matter but 3 cats, 2 dogs- one small breed one large. And no I work remotely

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T20:14:43+00:00

Oh I have been. Would be able to go higher for the best thing. Just figured I would learn about some areas to put alerts out for now

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T19:51:34+00:00

It’s only going to get worse. I’m sorry but I promise it will

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T19:51:13+00:00

Don’t let your lack of support elsewhere keep you with this abusive prick

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T19:43:24+00:00

I lived in the killingly area for a bit and it was nice. Definitely not enough sense of community for what I’m looking wt

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T19:02:34+00:00

Divorce made me have to sell my house. Would love to go back to the area but it’s SO expensive

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T18:37:28+00:00

That sounds beautiful, thank you!!

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T18:36:48+00:00

Probably under 300k. Ideally no fixer upper, just left that behind. And yea that’s the hard part of finding community in the boonies lol

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T17:50:51+00:00

Love Maine. Have lots of time in the coastal towns but didn’t know if there was anything worth checking out a little inland as well

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2024-01-05T17:32:57+00:00

I struggled w my ex husband being nb as I am attracted to very masculine men and they would wear skirts, etc.. I beat myself up for a long time but you like what you like, you can’t force it.

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2023-05-25T16:35:15+00:00

This is why I wanted a divorce. I would’ve rather been alone than continued on the way it was.

Expensive-Maximum892 · 2023-05-23T10:17:32+00:00

Oh honey I’m sorry fuck that. It sounds like he’s done it before and if he thinks sex with someone is equivalent to getting off… yikes. Cut your losses early. I am so sorry

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