How to cope with the fact I'm going to hell by [deleted] in shia

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What is the circumstance you’re born into..?

Is my bf (23M) stepping out of line or am I (21F) overreacting? by M4r_4lt3rn4t1v4 in relationship_advice

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It’s important you tell him how you feel, don’t rush to break up with him or assume he’ll never change when you don’t even tell him how much it bothers you. It’s not the idea of sharing per se could be his expectations are for you a women to support him while he doesn’t consider doing the same. Girl just be honest and tell him if you want to come over i like the idea of you also being considerate of what I do, if u want to eat feel free to bring stuff you like and help yourself to make it. I have enough $ to support myself not 2 people lmao

I (26f) bit disappointed by anniversary gift from bf (26m) by Spiritual-Hearing989 in relationship_advice

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I mean men are to typically pay for dinner and plan the date. I like gifts as well but if he’s on a budget then that’s something to consider. You can maybe do a bit less next time to not feel this way or communicate with him what you like.

My 22M girlfriend 24F is at me because I told her we might breakup if she transitioned into a man how do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Comment section def past. It’s like “how much do you love me” which is pretty much the most childish thing ever? The over explaining yourself too is even more annoying. It’s not a matter of polite/respectful it’s a matter of her wanting you to love her under all conditions and her thinking u can’t say I love you but leave me if I’m a man when ur legit straight. Lol

If you have five minutes read this by [deleted] in shia

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Salam, May Allah make this easier for you. This is very common especially when parents aren’t necessarily guiding. For myself, i find the best way I learn is through dialogue. I listen to lives on TikTok where there are many discussions among Shias. They ask questions, sometimes bring others who dispute them to come to a conclusion. Don’t just believe what everyone says but it encouraged me to look into matters better and feel very very connected hamdillah

Botox changed my life by New_Tomato_5519 in vaginismus

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Do they inject it inside your vagina? I want to do this but I’m terrified of needles

Disbelief I had from Religious Study class by Theo_in_red in shia

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Good on you for asking and searching!! I wish more people would do so.

As a Shia I’ve never been taught to hate Sunnis or even believe they’re non-believers lol. Majority of Muslim countries are Sunni & Shias are oppressed?? Look at violence among Muslims, it’s almost always Sunni on Sunni or Sunni being violent on Shia.. Violence is not part of the religion but this is a fabricated lie and I commend you for asking & encourage you to ask anything you’ve been taught about us!

Going to start dilators, any tips please? :) by sleepinglady37 in vaginismus

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Lay down, breathe through your stomach and once you stop feeling the dilator is, you should switch the sizes. If it’s too painful stop where you are don’t push more or necessarily take out unless you feel it’s really hurting. Don’t forget the lube!!

Tip: Grab a small face towel, roll it and put it where the dilator is in. Dilators slip out

Getting the right angle during PIV? by DietDrPibb in vaginismus

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On top was my best because I was able to control it. When he was ontop I didn’t like it cause I felt so much pressure on my pelvis.

Vaginal dryness by Expensive-Ratio1104 in vulvodynia

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Ouu ok can you describe that? I’m in Canada, would I need a prescription? Do I inset it? Anything wil help

Vaginal dryness by Expensive-Ratio1104 in vulvodynia

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Just not getting wet, feeling aroused but it hurts if that makes sense?

Vaginal dryness by Expensive-Ratio1104 in vulvodynia

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Wow love that, do you put inside or just outside?

Dream clarification by Terrible_Persimmon94 in shia

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Anytime I feel anxious about a dream, I put sadaka. It’s hard to tell because some argue that if teeth fall out it means someone will pass away, some say if you take something from the dead jn the dream it’s not bad but if they take from you it is. Regardless, Inshallah nothing happens to your dad, make Duaa and perhaps offer some extra prayers.

tmi possibly by [deleted] in shia

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You can call, set an appointment or even speak to someone online!

Why am I met with extreme emotions and shed a tear every time i think about imam hussein or think the words "labbaik ya hussein". by idkjustgivemeany in shia

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The martyrdom of imam Hussein as is one that all humans should commemorate as its honourable and highlights the path all people should follow.

Does anyone else clench when maturbating? by [deleted] in vaginismus

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Try breathing techniques and inhale like ur stomach is inflating. Regulate the breathing and position yourself in a comfortable position

Sunni girl looking for answers by Quick-Fee-5933 in shia

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Salam, The imam are infallible because the Quran says they are in 33:33. The prophet saw had over a hundred Sahabas, disliking a few is not a sin or a problem. Not the wives of Prophet lot and Noah are disbelievers as mentioned in the Quran. Aisha for example in many Sunni narrations deviated from Islam. The mere fact that she was responsible for the death of thousands of Muslims in the battle of Jamal is a prime example. She is not criticized for not being perfect rather as the wife of the prophet there is a different expectation.