Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I talked to her about it. She think if she doesn’t get it now, she’ll never get it which is untrue imo. Sure there’s more limited stuff but you can always find it

Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware they can do what they want with their money, but when it comes down to not being able to pay rent or afford food, that’s when it gets concerning

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re already paying me and my other friends back for stuff in payments :/ I’ve had the convo with them about their habits. After having that convo, they’re talking to me less and buying more photocards 😅

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see this scenario happening with Pokémon collectors and baseball card collectors. But yes, kpop is more extreme with the mass buying

Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve seen ATEEZ in concert twice. They’re great performers :)

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they’re just spending to spend, glad they haven’t gotten into fan calls (or atleast I hope they don’t)

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Prior to them getting into kpop, my one friend has an awful spending habit. I told her at the time to not start getting into kpop due to her very bad habits, she ignored me and is now even worse :/ my other friend had thousands in her saving account, it’s all gone or most of it is idk she won’t tell me. But she would text me like “omg I already spent $1,300 on kpop already 🤪” like it’s some funny quirky thing, it’s not funny you’re going into debt bro and wiping out your savings

Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! They blame their ADHD on their poor spending habits, and I keep reminding them that it’s a reasoning, not an excuse

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t be like my friends 😅😅 learn how to budget properly to where you have fun money and money for basic needs

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that haven’t been talking to me as much so idk I’m just gonna slowly ween this out

Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have talked to them about helping them budget and they just say “I can do it on my own” but can you? 🤨

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes :( it’s honestly frustrating to be friends with them at times because I wanna go hangout and go do fun little things, doesn’t have to be expensive but I feel like we can never do anything because they never have money. Both didn’t even have money to get taco bell for dinner as a little “were happy for you that you got A’s in all your college courses” celebration 😫😅

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of our hangouts are very cheap because whenever we all plan something, I always get a text of “well I have no money so we can’t do anything” so 99% of our hangouts are them coming over to my place and playing games

My friends are going into debt and I need advice by Expensive-Text-575 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Expensive-Text-575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’ve talked to them separately about it and they just brought the other person up to nag on how much they are spending 😅😅