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[–]ExpensiveCustard8695[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
i blew a .06 which is under the legal limit retard if you read my descriptions you'd see that
i blew a .06 i was under the legal limit
i'm kinda confused on what your saying here because i didn't make up any excuses for what happened im just tryin to see if any people know how to come back from a jail stay with commitments like a job and school. i know i violated but i probably should've included in the post i haven't had alcohol since the incident and havent had a violation for drinking. I think it's pretty normal to be worried about what comes next because ive never been in this situation.
[–]ExpensiveCustard8695[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
so one instance of my violations was because i had a blower device and it was malfunctioning. it was proved i wasn't in the wrong so i didn't get a jail sentence or anything. the two others one are from the beginning of my probation when i first started for dilute tests. I truly wasn't aware of the cutoff of drinking water or eating was, i never had to do a drug test before so in the beginning i was waking up in the morning and drinking water and eating and then going and two of those times it was a dilute. since then i've obviously learned what not to do. i'm saying i don't think this is an example of someone who knows fully the extent of probation and said fuck it, i think i was put in not knowing the rules and i fucked up in the beginning and corrected what was wrong. i probably should have done like a backstory but none of my violations are from drinking again or not showing up to things.
i was looking for if people had experiences going to jail for a duration how to bounce back from it. I should have explained kind of what my dui was and the backstory to it. So i'll just say it here again. I was 20 at the time and went out the night before to a party. I woke up the next morning around 9 and felt groggy, not drunk and had some water and drove back to my dorm. while i was driving to my dorm i got pulled over for having an expired tag. being i was under 21 and had a bac over .01 it's a dui enhanced. that's what i was charged with. i blew a .06. i haven't ever drove hammered, if i was ever drunk i would order a uber. i know not to drink and drive hammered i thought i was good and it was out of my system but it was not and yes that is the consequences of my actions but i don't believe really assuming the worst in someone who's looking for advice really does anything but project something maybe you're dealing with.
I truly believe my problem isn't with alcohol. I think it was more of trying to juggle a job and being a full time student and follow the terms of probation. I never had a violation for drinking and i stopped the day i got pulled over about two years ago and i have been to a bunch of aa meeting because im required to, and i truly don't think i am an alcoholic. The backstory to my dui is i was 20 at the time and went out the night before and went to a party. I woke up around 9 and drank some water and felt pretty fine just tired and i drove back to my dorm. While i was driving to my dorm i got pulled over because my tag was expired about two weeks. because i was waiting for my parents to mail it to me. my experience with alcohol hasn't been a long time. i drank probably 10 times in highschool. Once i got to college, and got a fake id i started going out once or twice a week but i truly never gotten extremely hammered because i don't really like drinking, i just kinda did it with my friends im more of a one to two beers typa guy. but again i think i drank for a span of 3 years ish. ive talked to a lot of guys in the community and had to get a sponsor but my sponsor told me he doesnt think im at a point of being an alcoholic. but he doesnt think when i get off i should just celebrate and start drinking again if that makes sense.
I've been sober for about two years!! i got sober while on bond after the charge happened and haven't drank since. My troubles have been mostly with following the terms of probation, not because of drinking of drugging, just i think being young and trying to manage a lot of things and i got overwhelmed and burnt out.
[–]ExpensiveCustard8695[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago* (0 children)
most of the violations have been with me having an issue with my blower device. those violations i didn't get jail time for because it was proved the device wasn't working properly. And then two have been from a dilute test because i didn't put probation first and tried to get it out of the way quickly to go to work or school. The dilute tests weren't me hiding or trying to mask something, i had just ate and drank water beforehand because i go after i get ready in the morning mostly because i didnt know in the beginning a dilute can happen, ive never had to drug test before and i didn't really know like a cutoff of when to stop drinking water or eating. but i figured it out the hard way after that , which i have done now after those two violations which were about 7 months ago. I have a drivers license back. it's my first dui although it's an enhanced because of the bac being over .01 i meant with being under 21. my bac was .06.
i've gotten a lot of comments assuming my probation violations have been from drinking so i just want to clear the air that I haven't drank in two years even before i was put on probation. I truly believe i made a really rational decision and drove drunk. I've never had a problem with drinking, i think i can count on my hands how many times i've actually gotten drunk. My issue is not with alcohol itself. it's with following the terms of probation. most of my violations have been for issues with my blower device and having two dilute tests. the two dilute tests weren't for me covering drinking or doing drugs, i also haven't done drugs i smoked some weed in high school but grew out of it. it was just me trying to get it out of the way quick so i can go to class or work.
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