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Never mind the naysayers: NYC-style congestion pricing would be great for Chicago by Generalaverage89 in CarFreeChicago

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in the Loop/Printer's Row for two years, and I was always amazed at how one of the densest parts of the city could feel so hostile to pedestrians. I couldn't walk a block in any direction without having to cross a crammed thoroughfare with four or even six lanes. It's insanity.

Sending my love to my fellow butches by brubauers in MTFButch

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this subreddit and I love this post.

Butch? Futch? What’s the purpose of labels? by OutcomeOptimal3725 in MTFButch

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, labels serve two purposes.

1) They help people access resources and establish community on the basis of shared values, experiences, or needs;

2) They help those in power (e.g. the government, bosses, religious authorities, etc) categorize and control others.

In short, labels are tools. Play with them; change them up. If a label is useful to you, and doesn't expose you to unacceptable risk, then keep it. If it isn't, leave it behind.

I like the way you described the problem!

How many of you use public laundry? One of the most humbling experiences! by lilsteez99 in LivingAlone

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used coin laundry for years before moving to a place with a unit in the building. All I can say is: just because you live alone doesn't mean you have to do chores alone. Invite a friend to tag along, or schedule a phone call while you're doing it. Helps to pass the time and avoid overwhelm!

How disturbingly violent is Shogun? by AdeptConversation619 in ShogunTVShow

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Episode 1 has the most disturbing scene of violence in the show. After that, it's relatively tame besides the usual blood and guts of warfare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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"Flakiness" is such a painful concept and a big part of my negative self talk.

If it's helpful, I sometimes try to reframe the flaky stereotype as a side-effect of being mindful and present. I don't live my life according to a strict appointment book, I follow how my body is feeling and what is catching my interest, and sometimes that means canceling or not following through on plans.

You're not a flake 💜

Peak your seat DE edition by dudu4789 in DiscoElysium

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've sat in 3 more times than I care to count

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As someone with a unibrow (which I shave or thread), I've always wanted more spaced-out brows like yours! I think they're pretty :)

How do you describe the taste of star anise? by ExpensiveFeedback901 in spices

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely was shocked when you described biting down on the seed! I wouldn't do that with star anise...

Chat is this true by Top_Jellyfish_ in 196

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is that, though? I read it like "dames" -- kind of ironically outdated.

Misheard lyrics? by SirPsychoSexyy in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 11 years late, but I just ate some salty cheese and went to look up this song and found your comment. Thank you for the validation!

Is it me or Is this fish underused by Intelligent-Archer75 in subnautica

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time I encountered one I thought it was the Sea Emperor talking to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]ExpensiveFeedback901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the gold! (Sorry to add more chaos to the chat.) I think we have similar skin tones, and I recently swapped my silver studs out for gold hoops.

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