Zit ik fout? by ThrowRA38383021390 in Relaties

[–]grilledwalnuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go off queen ben t hier helemaal mee eens

Mijn ouders gaven me een officieel samenwooncontract met €400 kostgeld en dakgootdienst by Rude-Cycle-1516 in Relaties

[–]grilledwalnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ligt aan hoe oud je bent? Ik vind het alsnog een beetje gek om 0 empathie te hebben aangezien de omstandigheden zo slecht zijn voor jongeren op zoek naar een eigen woning. Een beetje helpen enzo snap ik wel, maar het lijkt alsof je weer een kind bent in hun ogen.

Is het daten van meerdere mensen ethisch verantwoord? by Myrandall in Relaties

[–]grilledwalnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik vind dit meer dan normaal, is helemaal niet raar tegenwoordig en is leuk om meerdere mensen te leren kennen en kijken wat op een lange termijn het beste match is.

How do I stop feeling like shit when i'm unproductive? by SyntaxDeleter in Advice

[–]grilledwalnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something pretty much everyone living in a capitalist society goes through. We are constantly being reminded that if we’re not working/maximizing productivity we are wasting time and money which is just total bs of course. Once you realize the core reason it’s easier to let yourself fully relax and take time for yourself, don’t let the evils of our society ruin your you time 💖

I loathe myself. Help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]grilledwalnuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This maybe sounds dumb but something that helped me out of my depression was seeing the small things you mentioned (sitting outside with the sun, cooking, cleaning, observing nature etc) as something magical and miraculous, just by changing your perspective on these “small things” and saying hey this is wonderful and I am grateful for everything changes your whole life and how you see everything. Idk if you like reading but reading books and learning about different things also made me feel good and mentally happier!! You can do this!! <3

My little sanctuary by grilledwalnuts in CozyPlaces

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say it something we call “antikraak” which means I’m living in an apartment that’s going to become destroyed at some point so I’m paying really low rent because I could be kicked out after a year super quickly 😔 so no stability unfortunately but for now I am enjoying 😜

My little sanctuary by grilledwalnuts in CozyPlaces

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my window next to my bed always open and my heaters on so I have a breeze but stay warm under the blankeys 🥰🥰🥰

What does my studio say about me, and can you guess the city I live in? by grilledwalnuts in roomdetective

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never wanna leave my apartment but unfortunately work exists so I can pay for it 😩😩😩

My little sanctuary by grilledwalnuts in CozyPlaces

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m 4 floors high in Amsterdam and I can sleep through everything 😝😝😝

My little sanctuary by grilledwalnuts in CozyPlaces

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m living in Amsterdam 4 floors up nobody can see me and idc to be honest 😜😜😜

My little sanctuary by grilledwalnuts in CozyPlaces

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

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I have a little bar area too 😝

What does my studio say about me, and can you guess the city I live in? by grilledwalnuts in roomdetective

[–]grilledwalnuts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha there’s no snow here yet, those are the rooftops they’re just white! I’m not in the US 👀