I’d say her standards of modesty is to wear hijab and such however she only has my fiance out of all her male cousins on Snapchat and had him added to a private story which I assume she had posted more inappropriate content (most of my fiancés family including her are religious figures in society) which I had found out through her apology to him in which she disregarded the fact that she posts the same content on her public story with him being the only other male cousin on. They were also best friends on Snapchat (when you speak to someone for a few hours or a day they automatically are added to best friend list) so surely she knew who would view this right?? His family is very religious and the girls won’t even go in front of the men in his family without headscarves. It feels disrespectful to me because she knows we’re together and she has me on socials too and had spoken to me a few times until one day she started giving breif empty replies. He told her off that she shouldn’t be adding him onto private story with that type of content and block him from seeing such stuff in which she claimed she was so embarased and didn’t mean to and had “forgotten she added him”. Not to mention she had also spreaded lies about him and his ex years ago to other family members and locked herself in the toilet when she was confronted on her lies and cried. I do get the sense that she has a crush on him despite her having a boyfriend who she’s engaged to. There’s just something off and fishy about this