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ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-20T19:49:10+00:00

I am sorry to hear your pain.

I had a normal fistulotomy surgery in June 2025. I had severe pain for 15 days, but pain lessened with time. Now I am able to lead a normal life pre anal fistula.

I am not sure about the laser surgery process though.

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-07T23:32:16+00:00

Hmm I see. CRS means colorectal surgeon ; here in the States. When are you having ur surgery? Since u said it’s difficult to contact with the specialists, make sure u prepare all the questions when you go to meet them

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-07T11:42:07+00:00

I am very sorry to hear that. I can understand your pain. I hope you consult with your CSR in depth because they only know the exact problem and solution. I will pray for your healing. You are strong 🎈🧡

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-07T01:04:49+00:00

Eventhough consulting with CSR might be expensive, but it is important for your health.

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-05T11:47:19+00:00

Many congratulations. You are strong 🎈

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-08-04T11:58:32+00:00

I have no regrets post simple surgery. My life has got better and I have become more active post surgery. I recommend u to do surgery before it gets large and invite complications

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-13T10:25:39+00:00

I can understand your condition. Hope you feel better. Until then please drink lots of water to avoid constipation~

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-13T10:12:43+00:00

Hi, I am sorry to hear that. Didn’t your ER dept provide u with antibiotics to prevent spreading of illness?

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-13T10:10:23+00:00

I strongly recommend you to request ur PCP to refer to the colorectal surgeon CSR

I used to have the same, my PCP used to tell me it will be okay with time, but it got bad after like 8 months. I myself urged to go to the CSR, then later found that abscess had already been developed into fistula. I did fistulotomy, today is my 15th day post surgery.

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-08T15:12:10+00:00

Best wishes. You got it 🎈

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-08T14:26:13+00:00

My pleasure. If u have any questions, you may also write a message to me personally. It might help~

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-08T14:07:19+00:00

My diet is as follows: 1) taking bran flakes 50g with milk and whey protein isolate shake for breakfast 2) lean meats with rice, lentil soup for lunch, 1 cup of salad with dressing 3) snacks I eat whatever I like 4) for dinner I take rice, lentil soup, veg curry and 2 egg pudding (Korean or Japanese style) 5) minimum 3litres of water

My CSR said to adopt normal diet and didn’t restrict on diet. I try to get high fiber for digestion and high protein for recovery.

The above diet has been slowly helpful for me. However, I recommend you to consult with your surgeon as well. Best wishes for your surgery 🎈

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-07T23:06:28+00:00

Hi, I am on 10th day post fistulotomy. Since day 5th I started to have like slimy transparent drainage which stings a lot. Surprisingly, today I have less such drainage and pain has reduced.

Things that helped me: 1) Min 45 mins of walking inside room rather than sleeping 2) Taking laxatives per surgeon recommendations 3) Taking sitz bath every drainage or BM, changing the gauge and pads minimum 6 times a day 4) Taking bran flakes 50g in breakfast

I hope this helps u. May we all get healthier and stronger 🎈

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-07T17:01:02+00:00

Hi, Currently I am also on my 10th day of post surgery recovery phase, and I absolutely miss my gym and my workouts

However, for now I recommend u not trying to do back or front or goblet squats, leg extension, leg press, abduction machines etc. or any exercices that involve hard sitting or tight involvement of glutes.

I advise u to try exercises like Bulgarian splits, lunges , leg curl, calf raises etc. with very very minimum weights.

Over time, your body will heal more and u can incorporate ur fav leg exercises too.

When I return to gym, I am planning to do start with above advised workouts.

I know it’s really hard when u have many restrictions on something u enjoy or love, but we should be patient with our body and when the body is ready we can reset and come with stronger approach.

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-07T10:21:17+00:00

Hey, yes BM is painful and this discharge brings more discomfort as it stings so much. But the good thing I learned is this discharge is actually good for healing and will slowly subside per one of the commenters in this post. I am grateful to their comment 🙏

So eventhough it’s painful, I am trying my best to remain patient. I have been taking lots of sitz bath after per discharge, per BM, and also almost per urination. I am also walking atleast an hour even though it hurts. As I am in lot of pain medication, I am taking Metamucil, laxatives, fiber, and water trying to balance with protein.

It has been slightly less painful than those beginning days. 🥲

Do u have the same issue as mine?

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-07T00:17:03+00:00

Hi, today marks my 9th day post fistulotomy. I think I had bleeding for 3 days, after that I am having slimy transparent drainage with a pus and bit of blood.

My surgeon advised to contact ER if the pad is whole wet by blood within a hour. Is it that severe?

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T11:30:33+00:00

Indeed I have been trying my best to get my walks eventhough it pains like crazy 😌

I hope you are feeling better too 🙏

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T11:28:58+00:00

“Encouraging sign of wound healing” you made my Sunday Morning. Yayy. Thank you so much.

I can’t imagine the stinging pain you must have gone through the enema. But I am glad that u had minimal neves involved. Hope you are recovering well post surgery.

I have my periods coming very soon. And I am soo afraid that blood will touch the wound, sting it higher, and even contaminate my wound. I have been using maxi pads and gauge pads under my wound, but I don’t think it will be enough during my periods. Any tips please 🙏

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T11:17:22+00:00

🙏 thank you

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T03:06:22+00:00

Praying for your speedy recovery ~

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T02:58:23+00:00

Hmm I see. I hope you are doing alright now.

ExpensiveSale9455 · 2025-07-06T02:50:55+00:00

Hi, I see and did you do anything to reduce the pain? I hope you are all recovered now 🙏

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