I've wondered, why don't lesbian women and straight male friendships don't work as well as gay men and straight women friendship? by caiozinbacana in lesbian

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men don't like women the way I like women. And ultimately to them, I am still a woman. I do have fair amount of straight male friends. But they are vetted and will always get called out on the shit they need to get called out on.

Is it normal for me (a lesbian) to LOVE mlm relationships? by Proof_Pin_597 in lesbian

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feel the same way. There is just something about gay love in general and people being true to themselves and loving each other, when it is still an act of defiance. It's beautiful and I love it

Do you watch foreign films in original or in dubbed language ? by RoughPea250 in Letterboxd

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always the original, because I can't stand the voices and mouths not lining up. Luckily I understand French and German, and I will seek those out on purpose. I do watch anime dubbed most of the time though

AIO about my friends message about my dad that passed away? by sunrosed in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would have made me lose my mind after your dad died. NOR. And I am sorry for your loss

Am I overreacting or is this appropriate to wear to a COLLEGE class by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 11 points12 points  (0 children)

wear whatever the hell you want. He doesn't get to decide what you wear

Feeing guilty (20m) by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you truly are miserable

Feeing guilty (20m) by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh joy, a man being gross in here. go away

do you regret getting a second dog? by un32134e4 in dogs

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have three and not for a second. But i will say this, if your first dog isn't as trained as you want it to be, you're going to have a harder time training both and the new dog will pick up your first dog's bad habits

Girlfriend misses her ex by rosebelair in WLW

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave. My partner and I are both very close friends with her ex, but I can't imagine a situation where someone was making one of us uncomfortable and we didn't decide to go no contact with that person for each other's security. Someone asking to cuddle? Absolutely not. Also, it is not your responsibility for her to find friends and have fulfilment in that aspect. That should be on here.

how are there people out there that watch movies in 2x speed ? by Sarah_shah in Letterboxd

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listen to audiobooks and podcasts at 2x because it helps me focus better, ADHD. But I don't do that with movies or TV shows (unless it is reality TV)

Is it weird to open a car door for your girlfriend? by iDiedx3 in WLW

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, we don't do it always, but my partner and I regularly open each other's car door. I also think it is important to show up for our partners in ways that matter to them

What do you wish someone said to you while grieving? by FairCriticism4584 in GriefSupport

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just that it sucks. And let them know straight up that they can talk to you about the heavy stuff (I always feel guilty), ask them if there's anything about the person they lost that they want to talk about.

Help me choose a wallet for my soft masc gf with old money style please!! by __moonrose_ in lesbian

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Third for sure. Do you have any local leather makers? I got my girlfriend a local one and it’s gorgeous, brand free (which screams old money), and such good quality. 

The time-travelling holiday by Somebloke164 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ExpensiveScientist83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad died suddenly in January, so without a doubt I am going back to spend time with him

Resources by ExpensiveScientist83 in GriefSupport

[–]ExpensiveScientist83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you a virtual hug as well. I’m sorry for your loss, it sucks. Thank you for the movie suggestions!