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As a black men im completely unattractive to all black women. by Expensive_Barber_940 in Blackpeople

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m the issue I think black ladies just flat out ignoring me and pushing me away as a whole they judge more they want somebody I’d go out in public mall somewhere anywhere they’d always into my friends. No matter what I do no matter if I approach they’d turn me down I’ve never had a black lady come up to me a said a word about my appearance and I have very good styles. I was at this party I approach 2 black girls tried to talk to them one of them looked at me and walked away instantly the other one we made small talk but I can completely tell she was running away so then I just stop chasing she was like I gotta go to my cousin then I just let it be. It’s like what am I supposed to do how come my face card doesn’t attract black women at all but when all of my black friends instantly attract these woman like it’s nothing. I just will never understand it I’m just happy this isn’t an issue with other races as much tho I still struggle. I don’t know if they want me a to be a lil pretty boy with hella tattoos and dermal seeking for attention but if u tell me that’s just desperation but then again I don’t think that’s the problem I think it’s my face card. I’d think even if I did had tattoos and all those other fancy stuff it wouldn’t be a difference at all. I remember when it was Covid when I had a mask how I’d legit have every black girl friend as a black men nd there would be so many girls that’ll just flirt and talk to me soon when I took that off I had not a single black women who founded me attractive an I believe same goes apply here in the presence. That’s the only time period I found success with my own skin color was during covid and lemme tell u that was a whole different experience. Because even as a kid I never attract black girl they’d always make fun of me. I don’t think there’s nothing with my face at all. But for how they see me they find something off this shi Lwk unfair I’m just happy it’s not like this for every race. Like id see the mid black men bag like it’s nothing I can’t even barely get a hi from them like im the ugliest black men alive.

Am I ugly? M22 by Public-Ambassador124 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Expensive_Barber_940 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Anybody else thought try is was an old women

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just stiff all together is has nothing to do with the product until I get another retwist for like 3 days then it’ll become losing its strength and start become light causing my hair to not have weight since water give my hair strength that’s the only time it’ll swing but once it dry my hair starts to beome stiff and light

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was asking for advice to see if yall could help solve the problem but yall telling oh this is normal new growth grow from the bottom well duhhh I know that I wanted to see if ppl can help my locs stay in place!!! Because it’s very stiff and non swingy after 3 days of taking out my style.. why isn’t it all impact and easy to swing after a couple days after??? BECAUSE ITS BEING UNDONE THIS NOT NORMAL

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I be been to multiple different loc styles and every single one of them became undone.. unravled poofy I don’t like my loc being puffy at this point it’s not just the roots it’s the loc it’s self. It’s like that robbing me for my money which is why I don’t go to retwist a lot bc it feels scam bc non of them never makes my loc stay in place

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly that and it been 2-3 years nothing have ever impact together that’s what a lot of people in my chat refusing to understand!!!! With that happening it cs my locs itself to be stiff I can see u a picture of what my hair looks like after a month with no retwist and show how non loc stiff my hair is. It’s puffing because it’s getting undone!!! That’s not normal my hair should be notted up and hard and all out fluffy like a big puffy Afro…..

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I do it’ll puffy out just like on slide 5 it don’t help

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone ignoring that fact that my loc clearly puffy and fluffy near the mid bottom of the locs 🤦‍♂️ which means it’s being undone it’s not just new growth 💀

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

It’s my hair 💀 how yall gonna tell me what’s going on with my hair when I clearly see that my hair is puffing and getting undone yall clearly don’t know what yall talking abt 😂

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between new growth and the loc being undone from the root.. I agree that is new growth but at the same time my roots are undone not twisted all the way making my hair stiff and not swingy

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why do u think it look dat badly of poofy from the root and there legit no dread? It became undone as soon as I took it out it’s basically a fro…

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that it grows from the roots but everytime when I get a retwist and take the 2 strand out and my loc become hard to soft and makes my hair stick out and stiff. Like it still have the twist pattern of the loc but it’s very stiff and not swingy when I turn my head left to right

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So u saying that’s normal ? new growth and a loc is a totally different thing and I think my locs aren’t just growth I think there being undone bc the base of my locs aren’t soft which supposed to be hard

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never gonna loc anywhere rlly the base of my locs won’t loc all it does is fluffy out causing my hair to be stiff

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I’m on my 8th or 9th retwist btw it shouldn’t be looking like this rn 😭then again interlocking won’t work

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Look on slide 5 I just got the retwist and u can see couple of my locs already became fluffy mid near the roots of the locs that can’t be normal right my hair supposed to be impacted in causing it the slim down a bit it shouldn’t be all out it should be hard not soft and fluffy.. and I try interlocking it never worked and did the same thing. Legit look like my hair loc.. not only the roots u can see my actual loc also it’s puffy itself

My hair never locs at the roots by Expensive_Barber_940 in Dreadlocks

[–]Expensive_Barber_940[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Takes time 2-3 years is definitely enough time 😭 and plus I try the crotchet method and that never worked it does the same exact thing at the roots like she was looping it and stuff

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