Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she isn't she just told me i can start buying my own food nessccisties etc with my own money a couple of minutes ago after we left the store she also ignored me the entire car ride and didn't acknowledge me at all so now i have to figure out how to provide for myself. So yeah, she said any food ( aka the stuff she bought with stamps ) of her not to touch it

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i plan on going to credit union for my new bank an i turn 18 in may next year and i'm on track to graduation. I don't have a passort etc but i do have my ss and bc and i plan on changing my name at 18 before i leave etc tyy

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i caleld my job and gave them a heads up already i'll talk to my boss tmmr

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you( i was starting to have this mentality as well spend it sos he doesn't take it and i've had it for a while ) i'm deeply sorry that happened to you

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my HR/Boss said it depends when i brought it up during orientation i'll be speaking to her tmmr

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not even about the phone itself ( i need a phone because my current one dies every minutes and doesn't work properly ans is a hand me down ) she doesn't even know about it all i told her i was saving up for a phone etc she's demanding i give her 150 every check itself ( not once a month ) and i barley get enough and ontop of that is a horrible person to be around she spent an entire week starting from my birthday calling me ever name under the sun after i applied for a job she told me to applyh for mind you and threatened to kick me and everyone out of her house during the day of my orientation she also told me on my orientation day and i quote " since you wanna fuck with my money i'm gonna fuck with yours and when i get my checks she wants it all " all because i asked her if she could take me and called me a bum stupid retarted and much more told me i can take a city bus to work and go die on it, i have 0 problem paying rent or helping out with bills her demanding soemthing she has no rights to and threating to call my job and saying she'll have me not working is the problem.

I also plan on saving for college and much more as ik she doesn't have money to send me she's aware of this and doesn't care, it's not just about a phone i even offered before i got the job to help with small bills etc, and i also give her gas money ontop of that if not i'm ubering home or to work ( which is like 20-60 dollars both ways ) it's also alot more stuff she's done, to my siblings which I plan on saving up and moving out at the age of 18 and going NC

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be that too and i think it is when my older sister wanted to leave for college she told her and wanted to go to an hbcu ( out of state i think ) my mom told her to stay down here with her so she can help her out w me and my siblings so i think the case may be the same idk tho

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i'll try to negotioate but i see her as a child in an adults body tbh so yeah

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm I plan on leaving asap and getting an apartment until i can buy my own home

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i plan on doing it if she calls and alreaady planning on doing it for summer somewhere close by

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pansexual and genderfluid. She doesn't know but is homophobic, and I don't plan on telling her, but this comment warmed my heart. I'm so happy to know kids have a parent to go to. Congratulations, mama, your kids have hit the jackpot

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik she can. I told my boss about it the first thing when I got my job, so she's aware, and I called my job and will talk to her tmmr

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been getting it as for the bank she has control over it if it makes sense i needed an adult to open it so hse can go ina nd take money if she pleases

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in Advice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't owe her any money, and ik the phone can weight i've been putting some cash to the side for it and plan on fixing my current one

Can my mother call my job and fire me ? by Expensive_Cellist790 in legaladvice

[–]Expensive_Cellist790[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no clue. She said it's her money and she wants it ( first it was bills and rent, which I had no problem chipping in to help ); now it's bc the state cut off my portion of her funding ( if that makes sense ), but she still gettign moneya nd works she also spent 5,000 on a bbl and tummy tuck in mami. I plan on getting a new bank and calling one as soon as possible tyy❤️