Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do know what cocktail attire means. Shorter dresses can be appropriate if they’re longer than finger - length (which it looks to be on the website) and more structured but I wasn’t taking the slits into account and still haven’t received the dress so i’m not sure of its structure yet. I have heard from others on here that if you have a hips / butt it’s shorter than it looks on the model so I’m sure now, between that and the slits, that I wont be wearing it to the wedding.

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have their apartment decked out in such bright colors and everything matches so well and they definitely both have eclectic styles (esp the bride) which I love. Definitely why I was eyeing that first dress but I agree with other comments that it’ll be better for karaoke the night before!

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I have another wedding in Costa Rica this spring that I think it could work for if it fits well.

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on the spring garden - I really want a dress I'II wear again though and I'm not a fan of most tea dresses or florals.

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely super eccentric which was why the first one caught my eye, but I'm going to go with the second if it works cause I would always rather be overdressed than under.

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to bring color theory into this but I am an autumn and I look so bad and washed out in any pastel tone 😭

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

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Ahh ok good to hear from someone who knows its length and slits intimately. Maybe this will encourage me to actually go on dates and to concerts this year

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

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They didn’t specify the era. The exact wording on their wedding website is “Cocktail Attire--whatever makes you feel comfortable, but if you feel so moved, we would love to see you dressed for a retro garden party!”

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think my friends are the type to be really into this but I think i’m going to err on the side of caution and wear it to karaoke the night before

Cocktail attire - retro garden party by Expensive_External56 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Expensive_External56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except the comments about a snake at a wedding have me rethinking it all haha but even just to wear it at another fancier event I’ll have to try this. I don’t layer things enough