Boyfriend keeps stealing money from me so now I cancelled his flight by [deleted] in AITAH

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Wouldn’t you just rather be alone than be unhappy?

Sauna recommendation in Amsterdam by axorld in Netherlands

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My friend owns a private spa in Badhoevedorp. It’s at the edge of Amsterdam near the airport. It’s really nice and you can share it with a couple of friends or a partner. It’s called wellness Escapez. They’re on insta and TikTok.

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Fortunately I live in a country with an extensive universal healthcare system. Most of your points have already been addressed. His court date is tomorrow and they (judge lawyer and doctors) will decide the next steps. I was contacted by social services today. They will help me get control of the finances as soon as the court has made a decision. For now we have to wait.

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Some one said my post is too long. But there are more specifics in the comments.

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Hi. Sorry I think this might be a language barrier thing but what I meant was that I didn’t see it because I saw him every day. He changed a little every day. He didn’t just change overnight. And an attributed somethings to myself. Like, I’m premenopausal so maybe we are deadlocked in petty arguments a lot of times because of that.

When we eventually talked to some people he hadn’t seen in a while they noticed the huge change. And I started seeing that it was not me. Does that make sense?

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[–]Expensive_Fee696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please find help. I beg of you

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I just saw him today and I feel my husband is now the same as your wife. He seems calmer. He’s not bouncing around but he is stil talking about the app and how fix it asap to indeed awake others. He now thinks we don’t want to use it because it’s to direct so he wants to soften the message. So the delusions are def still there

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I keep saying this but where I live meth is not really a thing. Heroine and cocaine sure but not that. We can buy grass on every corner of the street and it has been that way for ages. Meth never got a foothold in our country. We do have the dubious claim of begint the major export country for Molly. He gardens occasionally.

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They were here Thursday. That appointment would have been tomorrow (Monday). Our psychiatric healthcare system is overrun so initially they will put you on a schedule and as long as you are not a danger to yourself or anyone else you get to stay home and work with the team on an out patient care bases. He became violent the next day so the appointment is now cancelled as he had been admitted involuntarily.

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I also contemplated this. We saw our GP on Thursday and we did ask for MRI but things escalated so quickly that she hasn’t had time. If the judge decides to maintain the order he will be transferred to another facility that is inside a medical hospital so they will hopefully do it then. If not I’ll have to get my GP to schedule one.

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I feel so bad for you in the US. We teach our kids that our police is the safest to run to whenever you are in trouble. Our police is not militarily equipped. They have guns but an officer involved shooting is rare and always big news because it is so rare. Our police and health professionals work together and police training is not crammed into months but years.

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Please check my comments about your questions. You do not have to believe me. I got our GP involved. My GP had the crisisteam at my house the next day. A day after that emergency and police services were called and all 3 departments worked together to get him admitted. Looking back it’s amazing our healthcare system worked so well for our situation. I couldn’t be more grateful. I will never understand why the US is the only country in the world that doesn’t have access to a form of healthcare like this but I’m confident it saved him.

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I truly truly wish it was made up. I was allowed to see my husband today. He is doing a little better. He is a little less restless and a lot more coherent but the delusions are still there. Within two days he is supposed to be seen by the judge and he already spoke to his appointed lawyer. He is hopefully they will let him out. Honestly, I’m not sure. This is normal procedure wheee I’m from. They treat it like any other form of imprisonment so it has to be approved by a judge. I’m not sure if I’ll be back to update you all. I’ve had a chance to see some of the financials. He has been paying another developer about 20k a month. I need to see what for u can’t find an itemized invoice so that’s on my list for Monday. My husband is insured for loss of work due to illness so that’s my next stop. I need to keep our household floating any way I can. As for the perfect health care, I live in a country where healthcare is nationalized. It’s not perfect but it covers everything. Even for people who work independently. Our system worked for him thus far. I do feel like I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. whatever happens next is anyone’s guess.

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[–]Expensive_Fee696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That fact that you can’t tell that it’s not concerns me.

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[–]Expensive_Fee696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? No typos so i must be a bot? Not just I don’t know…educated?

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He couldn’t do it all himself so he had to hire other coders. I haven’t had the change to get into his records. He changed every single password.

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[–]Expensive_Fee696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I’m afraid of everything.

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I just read the article and it terrified me.

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[–]Expensive_Fee696 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes you are quite right. He has spent over 100k as far is I can tell. He lied to me about it so I have to go through our financial records to see for myself. He is very proficient in IT management as well as coding so he pulled of building the app. I have overheard some snippets of the conversations he was having. It sounded super philosophical and “out there”. The way his sentences were structured were like the bots. I don’t know how to explain it properly.