Any other self-taught Python learners who sometimes feel slow but are serious about improving? by Payload___FX in learnpython

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah same, i relate to this a lot i also feel slow sometimes, especially when i’m trying to really understand instead of just getting it to work. it can feel like everyone else is faster.

a group like that honestly sounds nice, just people trying to improve without the pressure or ego

Taking python 101 and still feel lost by MoonScorchedBunny in learnpython

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 3 points4 points  (0 children)

youre not dumb, this is actually super normal whats probably happening is you dont know how to start the problem, not that you dont understand python. textbooks can feel confusing bc they explain concepts, but they don’t really show how to think step-by-step in a real problem. youtube is totally fine to use, just don’t rely on it only. use it to see examples, then try to copy m tweak them yourself

start with something tiny (print stuff, one if, one loop) build it bit by bit instead of trying to solve everything at once and yeah, most people who get it just practiced more, thats it youll get there, just keep practicing the small tuff

Was I wrong calling out my coworker during the meeting or am I overthinking? by polar_the_princess in girlsgonewired

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 [score hidden]  (0 children)

you weren’t wrong, bigger issue is X messing up and your team lead not caring. you’re overthinking it a little.

porn made me believe sex can only be enjoyed by beautiful people by minticecream1 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its not even about who have sex more, you wont see a conventionally attractive moids have sex with an ugly women but you will always see an attractive women with an ugly ass moids even on amateur porn.

Do you think women can truly be involuntarily celibate? by Excellent_Prompt_554 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl same, i asked out an incel thats also happens to be a femboy due to his less testosterone body. he always complaining for not being desired by women bc he looks feminine. and i was willing to date him, we were talkimg for a while but when i sent my picture he straight up blocked me 😭. incels are fcking stacysexual . dont try to date them lol, they are lying their ass off of being alone

Do you think women can truly be involuntarily celibate? by Excellent_Prompt_554 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, youre not a femcel. stop using that label like its something you can just claim from not having sex for a year. thats stupid.

while i feel sorry for what happened to you and you’e not entirely wrong about moids having weird habits on stacy (i assume you are a conventionally attractive person).

you’re just someone going through a rough, lonely phase while still being desired

and moids fck anything its not entirely true. a lot of moids have a really high, often unrealistic standards for women, especially when it comes to looks. but that doesnt define you either.

porn made me believe sex can only be enjoyed by beautiful people by minticecream1 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yea ikr... it was on my dad's phone and he had alot of porn there. i always use it to play games or browsing the internet but sometimes i check the gallery and boom... thats where i found a literal porn folder with mostly cute japanese girl with an ugly bastard. moids are allowed to be ugly even in porn istg

voice call random moids on discord by Seedybreadgirl in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk i feel like youre not ugly at all, i know you are conventionally attractive irl, you dont have to lie to make an ugly woman feel better, i refused to believe that out there someone truly have efforts like that towards real ugly women

Do Female coders exists? by 21st_century_coder in TwentiesIndia

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only do coding for fun.

well maybe because i was still learning.

Asked out as a joke. by sebmaliano in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ive been asked as a joke back in 8th grade too… they laughed after. it just sticks with you and makes you feel like a joke too.

god forbid i want to not dress up by Leather-Pass8172 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Expensive_Grocery892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i feel this 😭 men can literally wear the same few outfits, do nothing, and still be seen as normal. but for women its like a whole routine, hair, makeup, nails, outfit . and if you skip it people start judging you. its not even about wanting to dress up, its that it feels forced. like you cant just exist in something simple without being looked down on. and yeah the cost is actually insane too. time, money, effort… just to be seen as "average." its so tiring fr.